I'm 22 already and still virgin but sometimes i'm horny

I'm 22 already and still virgin. Never tried having sex. I had an ex boyfriend before but nothing happened between us just kissing and touching. I really want to do it now but I have a fear of having sex and get pregnant. I have a lot of goals to reach yet. I want to try sex but something's bothering me. I don't want to die a virgin. I want to give my virginity to a man who will truly love me and will not lie to me. But it's really hard to find a man like that.

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  • Mike_hunt

    Just keep yourself open and don't lose hope. One day a man will walk into your life and you'll just wonder how you got so lucky.

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    • melodyacoba

      Thanks

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  • Ass_gas

    Will you ever find perfection? Most people don't.

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    • melodyacoba

      Yeah I need someone who will love me.

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      • Ass_gas

        Get a guy that is a good match in bed too.

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  • jethro

    It isn't hard to find someone like that. Every woman says she wants a good, kind, thoughtful man who will treat he right. But when she meets him, it isn't what she wants. She wants the guy who treats her like shit and then she complains that she can't find a good man. Here is a secret, good men are all around you if you just open your friggen eyes. And if you are so concerned about getting pregnant, go get an IUD. So if this is what you really want, ask out that nice guy next door or at your office or school. You might just hit gold right off the bat.

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  • Countryboy4490

    Where are you from?

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  • Olddelusionalsailor

    Have you considered anal sex?

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    • melodyacoba

      No. I think it hurts.

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  • jollycholly

    If you were a guy I'd say that frequent masturbation will go a long way in easing your sexual frustration. But I'm not a woman and I don't know the ratio of physical vs emotional sexual release. A male can pleasure himself and get a tremendous amount of emotional satisfaction as well. Thus easing his . . . frustration. Don't know if self sexual pleasure has that effect on females: perhaps the need for the "real" thing trumps all else when one is in such dire straits as you describe? But I have never found shame in pleasuring one self in the privacy of one's locked bedroom. That and patience my young friend. The right one will come along. Sooner than you think. :-)

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    • melodyacoba

      Thanks. It's really hard to be single.

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      • JojoFROMnorthvancouver

        you from north vancouver by any chance i'm a virgin i'm 23 5foot6 135pounds i'm single baby boo

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        • melodyacoba

          Oh okay.

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          • NorthVanJojo

            you in north vancouver baby (;

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