I love someone and it tears me apart to know i can't have them.

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There is this girl that I like a whole lot, possibly even love. But there is little chance of things happening for us. It upsets me so much that I can't have her, but at the same time I just want her to be happy. So I just want to forget about her. But it's so hard. She shows up in my thoughts and my dreams. And to make matters worse I have the privelage to sit by the one I like/love and know that I can't have her. So I just want her to go away. But in my heart I want her to stay still, but if she stays there will only be more pain. Is any of this normal?

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  • sunny_wantsome
    12 years ago

    Congratulations you're a Human

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Sounds like my story I posted yesterday but no ones commented on it

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  • mysweetbananatree
    14 years ago

    i'm still in love with my ex. it hurts so much that i
    can't have him. i even regret dating him cause at first it was nothing special, but then i feel inlove with him and it was... perfect. we broke up because we were just to diffrent, like romeu and juliete except that romeu fought for juliete until the end... he fought for me but than he gave up.
    and it hurts. cause i never believed in love. and he changed me. now i cry cause i know how much i miss him. i don't even see him and it's terrible. it hurts so much to love someone this much and not having that person... it kills... i understand.

    i want to be with him but i can't and i want him to be happy! at the same time i don't want him to be happy with out me...

    but u know? love it's just quimical stuff going on in our brain... we can change it if we try. at least know u know that this pain u feel it's "normal". if u need anything say. lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I totally know how you feel. There is this guy that I KNOW I love but I cant have, because of an age difference hes my brother's friend and he comes over my house every single day and it hurts me more and more every time I think see or dream about him. Its totally normal dude don't worry it happens to a lot of people.

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  • Nitti
    14 years ago

    Normal and REALLY painful!! It's horrible but what can you do?

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  • ThePudgyOne
    14 years ago

    I'm on the same boat as you are buddy. I am 20 but for me, I have to toughen up and move on but for you, all I can say is go up to her and ask her. Dude, you are fucking young, the last thing you gotta worry about is a 'NO' but it doesn't hurt to ask so I'd go for it.

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  • Devindd
    14 years ago

    By sit I mean I have the privelage of knowing her

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  • halflifeparadox
    14 years ago

    that's totally me. what do you mean by sit? In my case I sit by that person in school. The thought of being unable to have her depresses me and getting over it is difficult because I see her almost every day.

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  • Ellen0079
    14 years ago

    I went through this last year, I actually left my job because I fell in love w/ my boss who was engaged and I couldn't deal with the thought of me getting involved w/ him and messing everything up for him. Now its been a year and I have regrets of leaving and think about what could have been. So I advise you to talk to this girl and give it a try so that you won't regret it later.And yes you are normal :)

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  • thatgirl1
    14 years ago

    I live with this everyday except it's the other way around. I'm in love with a guy from highschool whom I saw at a reunion not too long ago. We spent the night kissing and talking and I discovered that I absolutely am in love with him. He lives overseas and is married so I cannot have him. I felt a real connection with him. I yearn for his company and think of him everyday. There is no way we can be together but I do cherish that one evening we spent together.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    unrequited love is painful. you are normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Get over her you overly emotional little girl!

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