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Okay so..I'm younger, I can't help only being attracted to older men.. My teachers, Not too old, but anyone I feel I will have difficulty getting especially, I don't date anyone under 20.. and haven't since 16.. I'm just not attracted whatsoever.. I don't have a problem getting older men.. but is this normal?
I totally disagree with pixie_dust about the mental stimulation that a younger woman offers. You don't have to have everything in common to have a good relationship, and you don't have to have ANYTHING in common to have good sex. What you like is what you like, and nobody can tell you it's wrong as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
I'm an older guy (47) who loves younger women. I find them delightfully open-minded, fun, and unspoiled compared with women my own age. . . and I like to be with someone who is young and hot enough for me to physically worship in bed.
The problem for me is that I feel like I can't make the first move on the women I'm interested in, for fear of being creepy. I'm up for a relationship but not clingy or jealous or needy, so if a young woman is interested, she just needs to let me know, and let me know what her boundaries are.
So, do you live in Northern California? I'd love to meet some interested young women! :)
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Oh I wanted to make another comment.
I am in my 40's and met this young girl who is about 20 maybe. I know she was diggin me cause I would catch her staring at me, she would come up to me and whisper in my ear [anything], get real close and feel on my arms and back. She knew I was married so she would never take it any further and I would never do anything back. But man-oh-man, she made my head spin -both of them-
it is totally normal
older men come off as mature and experienced
yet younger guys come of as a bunch of immature losers that just want to sleep around
I think it's normal too. I always dated older men and married someone 25 years older than myself. That was 16 yrs ago, and he still gets me hot!! Even now, my mind is attracted to men only 10 + yrs older than me(ya know flirting and sexual fantasies). What bothers me now is myself being older even though I'm still younger than them. I always enjoyed being the baby girl. On the other hand, i also am aware that I probably am dealing with something psychological due to having been sexually abused by my grandfather. I don't blame myself, nor do I hate him or anything. But I think it makes me only sexually aroused by older men. I was told by more than one psychologist that this is extremely common. So I think it's fairly normal, or some variation thereof.lol
Girls are on a higher maturity level, mind wise. Normal:D my man is 7 years older than i.
You don't date anyone under 20... and you think that means you date older men? LOL
I totally agree , I am a older guy
I am not a perv, But I only want
A younger girl , to be my wife
And get married and have kids
Females age 35 and older are
At a high risk for pregnancy
A lot of them act old in
Their ways , I act young but
I am age 41 , I do agree with you
older men are thinking about what a tight twat you have and not much else bcuz youre too young to be mentally stimulating which is why its,illegal