I love my best friend but we are both male

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I am friends with this guy for a while lets say a few years, he knows that I am gay, but he doesnt know that I love him, he seemed ok to knowing that I am gay, but I am scared to tell hin that I love him, we are best friends and I dont want him to be scared of me or not like me anymore, but he doesnt have many friends and he trusts me and I trust him, When I first told him about my orientation he didnt really beleive me... But then he said it was fine with him, and we didnt talk about this after. But I always think about him, I always feel like being with him all the time, and I always dream about him, I had one dream that he kissed me... Should I tell him that I love him? Or Should I keep it to myself and be sad my whole life?

Tell him 18
Don't tell him 14
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  • myownopinions
    12 years ago

    The hard truth is that it would cause way more problems if you told him. If you honestly think that telling him will not compromise your relationship, then go ahead, but know that it might make your friend feel akward and guilty for not being able to reciprocate you feelings. You should think long and hard about this because if you do tell him, you will never be able to un-do it.

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    • GuessWho
      12 years ago

      ^ This.

      Don't go for it unless he makes a move. Maybe distance yourself from him a bit to ease your urges.
      If I knew that another guy thought of me that way, I'd never want to see him in my life again.

      If I was in his position, I'd want to know so that I could end the friendship, but if you can stay as just friends, it would probably be better for both of you if you don't tell him.

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  • anti-hero
    12 years ago

    You miss 100% of the shots you never take. Take the chance.

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  • InvadingPotatoLeader
    12 years ago

    Nice going guys the votes are almost 50/50 xD

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