I love it when people hate me.

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I seem to thrive from the harsh words of others. I love it when someone hates me for just being me. I tend to be loud, and act out of the norm alot. Because this seems to be what gets them upset.

Example: Last year in school, there was this one girl who i knew couldnt stand me since the first time i looked in her direction. She would always talk about me behind my back (little comments like fat ass, lesbian w****,) it was always so plesant for me. It was like every time i smiled she got a little more pissed off. Everytime i answered a question in class she would glare daggers at me.

Once i was talking to one of the teachers aids because she saw me in a fabric store. The aid asked me if i could sew, and I told her yes and right when i said that the girl whipped around in her chair almost knocking the desk over just so she could yell "SO!" and glare at me. At that moment i felt so happy and I didn't know why.

I constantly try to keep an extremely high opinion of myself just because it seems to make others mad. I dont know why or if other people are like this too but I dont seem to be able to help myself. It just seems so easy to irritate someone with just a smile.

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  • thiscantbegood
    15 years ago

    It just seems like you do it because it is easier to hurt others than to deal with being hurt by them.

    Next time someone hurts you try saying this, "Hey, that hurt me..." It is okay to simply feel it. This will help you deal with it instead of lashing out to get a false high.

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  • Bendito
    11 years ago

    When someone hates me means he just is jealous of me. When I know i do right and i am good, and someone is jealous, this is reason of be proud. Other thing if people hate you for being really bad person, but if they hate you for good skills its reason to brag and proud
    I always say: doesnt matter if people have strong bad or good emotions it matters that they have any strong jealousy emotions. As long as I make people feeling strong emotion toward me it is great and if its bad emotion it some kind of challenge which I enjoy. I enjoy the action.

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  • FreDraken
    11 years ago

    You're pretty messed up. Go read up about Aileen Wuornos. She was hated too and look how SHE turned out.
    Jesus loves you, but a lot of people think you're an a-hole. And you revel in it.
    Better get it fixed before you lash out and hurt somebody or yourself.

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  • theytookthisone
    13 years ago

    hell yea, I'm the same way. People think it's offensive when they say negative things about me and etc. Truth is I only feed off of negative comments, feels so much better than hearing a compliment!

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  • Sheisdelirium
    13 years ago

    Haters gonna hate, you sound badass, i like you!

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  • hotornot
    14 years ago

    Huh, I think you would be the kind of girl I would be friends with! I am such a softy, and try to act like my friend, whom is the toughest person around. Good for you, show the bitches....

    God Bless
    xx

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  • dedcatz
    14 years ago

    Can't we all just get along?

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  • xRiceBunnyy
    14 years ago

    Lol lucky u! =0 i would probably do a b**** slap! LOL xD

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  • peachesandcream
    14 years ago

    lol i know that feeling just being able to go about and show no feeling towards what they call u. I actually just started a new school like 2 weeks ago and rumors have already spread about me, apparently im a heroin addict, ie been to jail, ive killed someone, and ve been in a psych hospital. Laughing in there face is what i usually do.

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  • zombiekittie619
    14 years ago

    seems you have too much time on your hands to be thinking about others and pissing them off. mabye you should start focusing on how to make your surroundings better, and what really matters in life. you are not the only person on earth, and i doubt people give a shit as much as you make it seem

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  • MissTrademark2317
    14 years ago

    it seems like ur probably just a jerk. i don't make these conclusions very often but... ech.

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  • stjimmy
    14 years ago

    You sound a bit like a masochist, if you get happy when people humiliate you. But I like when people hate me because I channel it into art.

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  • HairyCanary
    14 years ago

    I think it's hilarious to have people hating me.
    Just hilarious.

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  • Maryjoan
    14 years ago

    Are you a sadist? do you thrive on people's sorrow. if that's how you behave then so be it. otherwise you may be too good at things and people are jealous of you and want to do the things you do and that's the reason they get angry at you and you get prouder. lol

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  • Confusedgirl
    14 years ago

    I am not the way you are, but i understand what your saying. You are the way you are you cant help it.I think its funny that you just smile & that girl is all mad. Honestly people are probally just jealous of you, or maybe a guy someone liked you got instead you never knoe a lot of things lead to that. Maybe you have a pretty smile & she doesnt. haha you never knoee. but you are how you are your not gonna change so live it up :)

    i hatee youuuu ;]
    happy? lol just kidding

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  • cockycunt
    14 years ago

    If it's true that 90 percent of humanity should be culled as brain dead then it'd be also true that their affection is meaningless and one'd be far better off with their hatred -- at least that way they leave you alone. "If people can't love you at your worst.. etc.."

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  • blahperson
    14 years ago

    its like the smae exact thing for me, but intead of talking back, when some one tries to talk rto me or calls me white boy or haole kid i just stand there and say nothing. i dont even look back, and every one is really pissed at me now. hooray.

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  • lwinnchick
    14 years ago

    you probably just like the attention. i mean, you've got to be memorable if people hate you enough to talk about you behind you back.

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  • sepulchre
    15 years ago

    I love this. When people try to insult me, I just become as insufferable as I possibly can. GOOD JOB!!!!

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  • Ritsudono
    15 years ago

    woots! we're the same! I like it when people hate me too...but I envy you that someone would really do that. That's funny...haha...

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  • bluezebra
    15 years ago

    Oh My God! I do the exact same thing, but only with certain people who i dislike, or if they are wicked creepy, i make sure they don't like me so they leave me alone, i threatened some kid earlier, because he proposed the idea of picking my pocket (there was only 2 pencils, mostly gone gum, and my bus pass card in it) and that kid is a bit creepy, but afterward (once he gave me one of those "you are an awful person" glares) i felt so satisfied, so i know what you mean...hmm, i'm gonna say that it is sort of normal, but somehow i think most people would disagree

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    • bluezebra
      15 years ago

      But then again, them disagreeing is a good thing...isn't it??

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  • spyderr
    15 years ago

    I do that too, sometimes back in high school some asshole would be talking about me calling me a nerd or telling me I'm lifeless, so I just laugh it off because they're stupid

    they're the ones who are failing courses while I am pwning them.

    you're pretty much like me

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  • Ritsudono
    15 years ago

    oh! We're kinda the same too! I laugh when people hate me too.

    Like, when my mom would be really really pissed at me for who-knows-what reason, then she calls me stuff like, 'you stupid piece of sh*t' or 'you damn a**hole' or something like that. I giggle to myself, silently of course.

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  • combatgal856
    15 years ago

    I know someone like that. He gave christmas cards to everyone that hate him (including him because I can not stand the sight of him) and didnt give cards to people who liked him. He smiled everytime someone got annoyed at him and he looked like he was enjoying himself.

    I think its normal to try to piss people off that you hate or that hate you. But once you try to piss people off for no reason then its annoyin nd just weird

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  • emilyf
    15 years ago

    I am like that too! I hate a lot of people, and they hate me back. And just saying the perfect thing to them to get them pissed off makes my day.
    I would say its normal :]

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    • timemaster86
      15 years ago

      im like her actually, but im a guy, people hating me makes my cold stone heart warm up, it brings me joy, i love it and no theres nothing wrong with it, lol

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  • lokitehwolf
    15 years ago

    well this kinda remindes me of me lol...
    always had that i want you to hate me or/ i dont want you to hate me i want you to wanna hate me :P

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  • roketlever
    15 years ago

    pissing people off is fun. i say we cut people off while driving and just drive slowly and speed up randomly! hahaha

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    u sound young still u dont know shit about shit watch out if u piss the wrong person off in my neighborhood u can get snuffed real quick watch it !!!!

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  • CuppycakeXD
    15 years ago

    You rock. = P
    You love messing with people's head.
    Is better if you keep doing this, don't give that girl much of your attention.
    She's a cunt with nothing else to do anyway.

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  • jamesbeam420
    15 years ago

    You get off on making other people miserable? Sounds like a sadist to me. You've got some issues, I suggest seeking help from a psychologist. It's just going to get worse and worse and one day you're not going to enjoy having no friends and being hated by everyone. Making people happy is much more fuffilling

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    The sad thing is I will always have to deal with people like you, who will always judge me. What difference does it make if I got married before I had my kid, not all married people plan their kids, and most people get a divorce now. Perhaps this is why I don't want to be with somebody, because I don't want to deal with the drama of a relationship.

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    • asskicker20230
      15 years ago

      no your so thick head you can't stand to be wrong or to even listen to anyone i could care less about you being a prom whore and then getting pregnant YOUR LIFE NOT MINE but am 100%% Sure Your son will grow up miserable because of you and your stupid choices but your way to pushy and that will drive away your son I'll bet money on that but whats the point your just going to respond like a monkey anyway

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      • [Old Memory]
        15 years ago

        You're a jerk. seriously a real asshole and I bet MONEY you will treat your wife and kids like shit when you get older.

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        • asskicker20230
          15 years ago

          no because they won't be pushy retardeds that have their heads up their ass and am not a asshole the retardation that is on this website turns me into one so sorry that am not being nice to you but god dammit you need to get use to it

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          • Bobert
            15 years ago

            It's interesting to hear the family values of a man who is the spawn of siblings. It's good you can give your opinion here and you're not too busy hassling travellers about their "purty mouths".

            "you posted YOUR COMMENT ON Public POST so even if you did tell me You shouldn't have post if you couldn't take the criticism that will go with it" - There's a difference between criticism and insults, and you're simply doing the latter. Plus, no one here wants to hear the opinion of the pond scum of an already shameful gene pool.

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            • asskicker20230
              15 years ago

              hey bobert how about you get new insults the ones you are using are getting a bit old

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            • asskicker20230
              15 years ago

              first off thats how it works around here she knew if she post that someone will say something insulting so even if you didn't what my opinion you got so and you don't even know me and and i know i thing or two on how the mind works

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          • [Old Memory]
            15 years ago

            I think you need some counseling bro.

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            • [Old Memory]
              15 years ago

              pay no attention to asslicker, he's suffering from a rare toxic reaction to the plastic in blow-up dolls.

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    • spamjaveIin
      15 years ago

      "I'm glad I have my son, because I do not think I will ever get married or have another boyfriend again. So now I won't be alone, and I'll have someone to love and someone to love me....for who I am."

      sorry, i hate to agree with ass-dicker but i think you're really gonna mess your kid up big time. you're turning him into a substitute for adult relationships. how you gonna feel when he meets a girl who takes YOUR place in his life? That's assuming he's even gonna develop normally.

      oh shit, here i am sounding like some twat psychobabbler. but it needs to be said, sweetheart.

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      • [Old Memory]
        15 years ago

        I'll be happy, and accept her into the family. I would like grandchildren you know. =) I think you are wrong, because I am doing the best I can for him, and maybe I do have a bad choice in men, so it would be better for me to date when he is older, atleast 8 or 9.

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  • unibaIIer
    15 years ago

    all i want to know is how big are your tits?

    I was scanning that long post for that info and couldn't find it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    WoW that is impressive usually when people treat me like that I blush and look down at the floor b/c I'm such a softee, but sometimes I lose my temper just depends on the situation. good for you!!

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    • spamjaveIin
      15 years ago

      you're such a lovely girl and yet have such low esteem. You need a real man to help bring out the lovely woman inside of you. It isn't about sex, or even love. It's about another person getting who you are.

      Believe me, I've looked a long time for the right woman to set the real man in me free. Yes i've had more experience than most, tons really, but when it comes right down to it, im just looking for someone I can spend all day with and not feel like leaving. someone i can tell my stupidest thoughts to and not feel like an ass brush. someone who i don't need to pretend for. someone who i KNOW, deep down, and who knows me. do you know what i mean or am i just spouting like some pissed cow off at the local wankabout?

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      • [Old Memory]
        15 years ago

        No, I get exactly what you mean, someone you can just be yourself around, and not have to worry about what they think about you. Someone who has similar ideas, dreams, and standards. I do think I want someone like that, but sometimes I wish I could just find someone who I liked just enough to settle for long enough until I can find the right man. I guess the reason why is b/c I want someone by my side, someone to talk to, but mostly someone to keep the pervs from talking to me. =)

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        • spamjaveIin
          15 years ago

          a bonnie lass will alway attract attention. The thing to realize is that most of the weirdos are actually AFRAID of you which is why they have to come at you so hostile and aggressive-like. If they approached you in a normal manner they might face rejection for real, or for some of them actually get to go out with you, in which case they wouldn't know what the bloody hell to do.

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          • [Old Memory]
            15 years ago

            well i have hadn't had that happen yet, maybe i'm just too picky.

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            • spamjaveIin
              15 years ago

              no you aren't too picky, its probably that where you live are a lot of hicks with lots of hair in their nose and not lots of teeth in their mouth. i know the type, i bet you remember daddy's little pooltoy? he'd be the kind you probably run into every day - or maybe you wind up with some Emo creep like flikr which is almost as bad.

              no, keep your standards up, otherwise you end up with a bunch of little rugrats with hair lips no chins and IQ's same as their waist sizes.

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  • eatter123
    15 years ago

    it is true that every person reacts to a situation differently; this would explain your reactions to negative comments/reaction. were some-people would avoid such reactions, you seem to dive straight in, this could be because the chemical signals in your brain are sending the wrong (or in your case the right) signals about how to react.

    and the other girl in the story is just pissed because you are enjoying her torment (most bullies/sluts/bitchs hate to be ignore, because it shows them that they have no power)

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  • asskicker20230
    15 years ago

    shut up mall goth you don't keep trying to be different but guess why your not

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  • Goatmeat
    15 years ago

    are you fat and are you a whore? do you like it in the asshole?

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    • Jodiee
      14 years ago

      hahahaha

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    • PopsicleRunner
      15 years ago

      ...as a matter of fact....

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