I love him. is it normal?

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IIN; I have a bestfriend, and he is the most amazing person. We've been friends for a while. Anyway, one day we were hanging out without anything to do so we started messing around. After, that day he became my friend with benefits too. We were pretty good at staying bestfriends and FWB's until recently we both admitted we like eachother.. we talk/text from when we wake up until we go to sleep. I think I love him. I really dont want to, our friendship will be ruined, right? and, the fact I talk to him non-stop does not help my feelings decrease. We both know these emotions are there but we basically try and deny them which is making it worse. Leaving me with the question: What do I do now?

Stop talking to him, its only going to get worse. 2
Tell him he needs to decide 6
Try a relationship with him. 40
keep it as FriendsWithBenefits 6
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I think it sounds like a perfect type of relationship. I dont see why it would ruin your friendship. Who could be better for you than your best friend.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Go for it. It's better than always wondering "what if".

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  • suckonthis9
    11 years ago

    Try a relationship.This is your first romantic love experience, enjoy it.
    Be certain to use an effective method of birth control.

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    • DaddysGirl
      11 years ago

      Hahah, birth control, good idea.

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  • lufa
    11 years ago

    With my female friendships (not including girls I dated), only one relationship turned into something more. In the beginning I felt she was out of my league and she had a bf already at the time, so I completely put the idea out of my mind that we could ever date.

    But we used to study together a lot and she was as intelligent as she was beautiful, it was an intimidating combination. We had a lot of great times together and then one day I think we both knew we had fallen in love with each other.

    We had fooled around a bit but I stopped going to her place and cut things off. I wish I could've at least talked to her about it. Fact was that because she was dating this other guy, I really didn't want to compete with him, but I think she might've gone for me.

    Anyways, I say go for it, you might fall madly in love with each other as well.

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