I love him

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I'm in love with someone, i love him so much he is the first lover, everything he told me to do i do it, but he is still love his ex-girlfriend and he is still with her, she didn't know that I'm in love with him he told her that he was broke up with me and she always call me and told me stay away from my boyfriend and i didn't told her that I'm in love with him because he told me not to do it, i know its wrong but i don't want to lose him i love him more than my life , when i leave him he always talk to me and told me are u crazy i want u and i need u and i cant live without u , i told him decide me or the other one he told me i cant decide i want u and i want her i told him i cant be like that she always took u from me she always has the priority for everything i love u OK but i cant take it anymore , he told me OK but i need u stay with me please and i stay, he always talk to me when he sad, angry, happy, and upset he didn't talk to her like when he talk to me now he is travel to work and she is always talk to him and put comments on his wall in facebook and for her he remove me from his friend because she told him to do it and when he did it he told me please don't be angry or sad i have to, when i saw her comments on his pictures like i love u or u r so cute baby my heart start beating so fast and i start to cry, I'm on this case for 2 years , please can anyone told me what to do i cant leave him if i leave him i will die and really I'm tired
really someone can help me to win his heart? Is it normal to feel this way?

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  • Tancho
    13 years ago

    To be honest you won't like the answer but you really need to get some time and space between you and this guy. Alarm bells should start when he says he can't choose between you both and he is listening and doing what she tells him (removing you from Facebook etc).
    Just see it from his view, he's got two girls here under his command - his current (I wouldn't say ex given the Facebook comments) and you as a back up. It is hard to take but you don't know what he is saying to her about you, playing you down.
    Personally I would contact him and request he doesn't contact you for a while - if he truly loves you he will respect your space and sort himself out. Time apart gives you time to get your head around the situation - the more you contact him the more you torture yourself with the "what ifs". If he splits up with this girl and comes to you be very careful on how much you trust him, he needs to prove he can be trusted.
    But believe me, it will be hard at first but the space will give you time to get your head around things.

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    • sofia
      13 years ago

      tancho
      thank you very much for your opinion i wish i can give you his mobile number to talk to him and told him everything i was thinking for what you told me to do and i took a space and realize that i cant live without him, he knows that and he knows how much i love him but he didnt care he always told me that he was with his ex- for 3 years and its difficult for him to forget her but i dont think he tells the truth he is still love her so much but when i ask him he always told me im still love her but not like the first , im sad coz everything he told me to do i do it, one time he told me to buy for him mobile blackberry and i brought it just to make him happy i always give him money once i give him money so he can travel with his friends to egypt , i always told him why you didnt told that girl to buy for you what you want why me he told me because im not shy from u but from her i shy, sometimes i think he just talk to me because i have money but i always say noway, once he told me if i want to get married the first person came on my mind you , he always say to me if i want to marry i choose you not her, but i think he didnt mean it he just say it because i didnt feel anything except that he still love her.. im tired i dont know what to do ? really im exhausted :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    more power to ya... *hugs*.. hope u find true love someday!

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  • wuddeva
    12 years ago

    Moving on is the toughest part now...

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  • walterluvr
    13 years ago

    Ahh hun, that really touched me and for a while I know how you felt. The guy is obviously confused so just try your hardest to stay away and keep a solid support near u jus in case u get a little too low. I think its best for u guys to call it quits because apparently, he's willing to let her rule his life so please just stay away. Stay away until he makes up his mind and let the guy know. Tell him all of the reasons why and dont hold back a sentence. Say what you have to say hun and just tell him, that until you make up your mind you cant be in the middle of it because its doing serious damage to you and I can tell by the way you're typing that you are seriously broken and you really need to tell him how you feel and why your leaving him. Please take this advice because you will be miserable forever. Oh and btw, keep yourself busy, if you're mind is off of him you would probally would eventually get over him. :)

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    • sofia
      13 years ago

      thank you for your advice but now i realized that he didnt deserve me , he hurt me he did something bad for me and he choose his ex Instead of me and i broke up with him, im regret for all the days that i Stayed with him

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      • starkitty
        13 years ago

        good for you...that was the right decision. if he really cared, he would've worried more about making you and only you happy than trying to forefill himself as much as posssible

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ahh a story about you loving someone ok now tell me how is you loving someone a hard one to tell if its normal or not?
    EXACTLY its not fucking hard if you know its normal stop submitting it ugh peolpe like you piss me off
    the name of the site is "ISITNORMAL" so you should only submit a story if you dont know if its normal and if you honestly believe that you dont think loving someone isnt normal then grow up

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    • sofia
      13 years ago

      i didint take your opinion , and if you dont like what i write dont read it its simple so im not intrested about what you thing so go to hill

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    • starkitty
      13 years ago

      dude...chill out. she was just looking for help

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      • sofia
        13 years ago

        if she want to say anything she have to be polite not like this

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  • starkitty
    13 years ago

    my heart is totally going out to here cause ive been a victim of this. the fact is, he's playing with you. he's playing mind games like being super cuddly one day and cold the next to keep you chasing.

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    • sofia
      13 years ago

      i dont know what to answer because some of your words true, but i think if he want to play he will not let me stay with him 2 years he will play with me on the first and leave me, i want him to chasing me i want him to love me so much but i dont know what to do

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