I love her, she likes me... and it kills me.

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Nearly 3 years ago I met this girl in HS. She was really sweet to me. We used to flirt under the table and we were so close as to one day she seemed concerned about me because I was quiet and wouldn't leave me alone until I started crying and told her what was happening. Well that summer break I developed the strongest feelings... for her I started missing how she touched me...how she looked at me; I know she thinks I'm cute, and sweet but I don't think she likes me like I love her.

Because despite me telling her everything, and having an emo fit over her fiancée at the time... she looked over me and dated someone else when she broke up with him. And she has another bf....he holds him and coddles him... and has the guts to tell me we have something special. 3yrs later after I've tried not talking to her cause I felt like I bothered her after having many awkward quiet conversations after I found out she had been engaged. I trust her friendship... I don't trust her love. I still feel like I love her...but some piece of me feels like she'll keep me hangin and I feel in my gut she'll never even date me. But I have no one else in my life... no one I feel finds me attractive... so I don't know what to do. And now when I talk to her I'm fine... but some piece feels like she'll stop one day. Some piece of me enjoys her being my friend... and another feels empty, makes me feel like I need her around. Is this normal? How should I handle this?

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    my advice is, try to move on with your life. stop talking to her if that's what is needed

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Grow some nuts man , Cancel that bitch like Knee'no

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  • anya07
    13 years ago

    every person cries and its not a weakness.be courageous,tell her about your feeling even if you gain nothing later you wont blame you for not trying

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  • ihaveapenisinmyshoe
    13 years ago

    If you cry'd she thinks your gay, fuck a few girls talk about how ones sexy and ones not if she likes you she' ll get pissed then go for it

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think she loves you too, but not in the way you love her. You have to remember that. Having a friend like that is the most painful one to have, I know, but if you lose it, you'll regret it. and besides, the pain won't stop even if she disappears. Trust me, i've been there all too recently.
    Just try to enjoy your friendship =)

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    • Wierdmyself
      13 years ago

      Thank-you a kindred spirit. I'm glad someone understand it enough to write good advice. I love her and when we talk I feel happy. She's like a band-aid for all the heartache I've had... without her I feel lonely in the bad kind of way when u feel like u belong nowhere. With I still feel lonely... but at I feel like a likeable person. Here lately I made sure she knew I would b Ger friend regardless of who she's with. Meanwhile... I'll wait 4 two things.. she decides to b with me or I find someone whose willing to date me and get to know be better.

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  • Cheese123
    9 years ago

    Are you over it yet?

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  • Wierdmyself
    13 years ago

    listen thanks. I talked to her, I'm strong... I know I am. I think I close to resolving this. I'll always be her friend, but I won't stop living 4 her. If I find someone else who matters I won't think twice, I'll be with her.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    men don't cry, at least not before banging her once

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