I love her and it's consuming my life

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Ok there's theis girl in New York I was really good friends with. When the guy she loved broke up with her, her life was shattered. I was one of the few people she really talked to and made her feel better. She is by far the most beautiful person I have ever seen. Far more then Jessica Alba, Megan Fox, or anyone else BY FAR. Plain and simple I am in love with her.

I recently moved to Florida and I am moving back the first chance I can. If my parents won't let me move out it'll be my 18th birthday. I honest to god can't go 30 seconds without thinking about her.

Recently she's been having resurgences of her feeling for her Ex-bf and this time she's shutting me out completely. Ignoring calls, txts, facebook inboxes. It's killing me.

Honestly, it is slowly ruining me.

Is this normal? and how long am I going to be like this?

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  • roflyguy
    13 years ago

    Dump the bitch!

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  • turnoff2012
    12 years ago

    u PROBABLY SMOTHERED HER. OBSESSIONS/INFATUATIONS HURT, BUT THEY PASS, SHE IS PROBABLY HUNG UP ON THE DUDE AND YOU DONT STAND A CHANCE

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  • PDK79
    12 years ago

    Life plain sucks sometimes, don't it? There ain't a damn thing you can do about it either. Welcome to life. Fight your depression and get outta the house. Talk to some girls. The only thing that's going to help is time & friends. & girls. I know it sounds shallow, the the old saying is true. That doesn't mean you should write her off. Keep in touch with her. But obsessing over her will only throw you further down the spiral. Distract yourself from your heartache. It'll help you cope. Good luck kid.

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  • girly-27
    12 years ago

    Stick to her. She's just confused

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  • SMILEifyourstupid
    13 years ago

    If she's ignoring you stop trying to contact her, even though it's hard, you may just end up pushing her away.

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  • Sweetcat
    13 years ago

    U obviously love her but give her sometime to clear head and go through the motions. She's probably thinking of U too & that's Y she just shut U out from facebook ect.... She can't get over s broken heart and thinking of U. It will only get her confused and in the long run U might just be a thing that happened but on the rebound, and U don't want that.
    So just give her some time & only time will tell if U guys are really meant to be together.

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  • giant_fox_girl101
    13 years ago

    i think you need to talk to her and tell her what you feel, but be careful cause if she dosn't love you it can get really awkward really fast and you probably wont stay friends after the awkwardness

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If he broke her heart once, he'll break it again. And it won't be long 'till she realizes that she needs the one person to make her feel better...& That's You dude :) She must be ignoring cuz i think she's busy trying to gain back her ex that she has no time. Love can drive someone insane , to a level where you only pay attention to the crush. In short, Don't give up , She'll get back to you someday because obviously , he seemed like the wrong person to begin with!

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