I love chocolate. it loves me back. part 2.

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You may or may not have read my "I love chocolate. It loves me back." story. I decided to take it one step further and talk to my closest friend about it. I talked with her for a bit and she simply patted me on the belly and said "Well if you love eating chocolate so much. Eat it!" with a big smile on her face.
I was shocked by her response. I thought she'd give me a lecture on how I should change my ways, she being one of those thin girls.
We talked for a bit more and then she asked me "But, do you enjoy being that big?" I was stuck for words, not know why on earth my closest friend would be asking me if I enjoy being overweight. I didnt know what to say so I just shrugged my shoulders. "I know how much you like eating your chocolate, so why bother changing if you love who you are?" I'm simply stunned. She actually implied that I should continue gaining weight.
Firstly is it normal for a friend to say that if I love being fat, I should be fat and not think about losing weight, as skinny seems to be the sexy thing in society?
Secondly would it be normal for an already large girl to want to start stuffing herself stupid, just out of the love of eating? (because I kinda want to start getting a little bigger, after what my friend said to me)
and are there any guys out there that actually like girls with a bit of weight or do all the guys love the thin/normal sized girls?
Thanks!
Anna. X

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    They are called chubby chasers and they are out there. 2 blokes I know married bigger girls.

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  • Lula
    12 years ago

    I met my husband I was a size 8<BR>When we got married, I was a size 12<BR>My husband to his surprise, liked me with more weight. After a few years a marriage I was a size 18. The bigger I got, the better the sex<BR>He told me how much better I look<BR><BR>Yes some guys like women fat

    I am not sure I would of gain all the weight before marriage

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I love fat chubby plump BBW girls so gain more weight and become beautiful

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  • superguy99
    14 years ago

    i think normal or skinny girls are SEXY fat girls are a huge turn off, men r affraid that fat women would die of a heart attack while having sex

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  • kinderegg
    15 years ago

    internet bmi are crap go see a doc. I did one and it said I was 26%% I'm 12%% by the doc's acount

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    Forget about what you look like. Think about your long term health.
    You don't provide any statistics, so there is no way to know what you are talking about when you say "large" or "fat." These are emotional terms, not objective, and it is very hard for anyone to judge themselves objectively by using their emotions!
    Google "women" and "BMI." Get your number.
    If it's high, increase your activity level and begin to improve your diet. Chocolate in itself is not bad. In fact, there's lots of good stuff about it. It's quantity that's important. You can put yourself in the hospital by eating too many carrots, after all.
    The second thing to look at is family history. Any weight-related dread diseases, especially high blood pressure or diabetes? If so, then that increases the urgency to improve now since bad habits only get harder to change with time.

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  • harrisoncorn
    15 years ago

    Well, of course there are guys who like fat girls. Lot's of guys like fat girls. It's just a matter of opinion. I belong to an online community called www.curvage.com it's just a place for people who love chocolate, big girls, and even getting bigger. You should check it out as you would be very welcome there.

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  • fulcypoo
    15 years ago

    If you're fat, next time you eat chocolate it'll probably be wearing a condom.

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  • slackjawedyokel
    16 years ago

    well some guys like bigger women IF they are well proportioned and have a nice face,with a plain or ugly face a women has a better chance if she is thin.

    but to the chocolate why not eat dark chocolate...some of the ones with higher cocoa percentage have less fat and less sugar and dark chocolate has all sorts of health benefits everyone could use.

    but remember dont overdo it with nay kind of chocolate have a small set amount youll eat and then be done with it for that day.

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  • CrazyChickOx
    15 years ago

    wuhooo u go girl big is bestt! you shdnt be ashamed of the waii you lukk but bein healthy is important too Try fondue coz then you can hvaee fruit aswell!!. CrazyChickOx

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