I love a movie character more than girlfriend

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If i read the title myself i would hate this person

Im a virgo

The first girlfriend i really liked broke my heart, took a long while to get over it but eventually i did.

Dated another girl to the point where i couldn't because emotionally my ex came before her.

By myself for awhile and watched teen wolf every release date and something emotional from the character Malia got to me.

It isn't what you think i've had crushes on actors before and got over it but this is something different it just hit all my weak spots.

Started dating gamers, met a girl i liked irl until she did something i couldn't trust, a friend of mine comforted me and this is the stage i'm currently at

I told my current girlfriend three times i wasn't sure if i liked her, for this sole reason of Malia, It got to the point where i couldn't be with her because i didn't like her as much as i do with the series character.

It took so long her being suicidal and depressed for me to open up with her, but i couldn't hurt her if in my mind i liked someone more then her, it isn't fair for her.

I can't get any more serious, after the third time i let her know and im back in the same situation with her, due to the reason that i actually prefer to be with her in the long run with her having the same interests as me etc

But now we got back together i feel really guilty that im still feeling the same way as i first did, i'm analytical but i tried everything to the point where i even got depressed myself lost all emotion and don't think i'll ever feel like my normal self again

I try so hard to do the right thing but it's not working. I've seen people even family do really morally wrong things and i don't want to be like them. I could use someone's help through this i feel guilty and i feel like the worst person in the world right now.

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  • MilkyDripperMoans
    2 years ago

    I'm a scorpio and 3d women SUCK. Anime women is where its at

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  • Tarkio
    8 years ago

    You Virgos put women on fantasy pedestals. It is a waste of time!

    You want to believe the woman you are infatuated with is perfect. No one is perfect. Especially not a Teen Wolf character.

    Take off your silly rose colored glasses and compare Malia physically, mentally and emotionally with other attractive TV characters. Then pick out Malia's unattractive traits.

    I could pick out many unattractive traits of this silly character. Most men would not find her very attractive. I don't. It is in all your head! It has made you feel good, so you go back for more, like chocolate.

    Then get away from the ridiculous series. Don't watch it!

    Instead think about your girl, and all her wonderful "real" qualities you can touch and feel. Put all your attention into your girl, and you will forget this character.

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  • Lariii
    8 years ago

    If I were you, I wouldn't try dating this girl, it seems that the relationship just isn't working. Maybe you're just not ready emotionally for a committment, and crushing on a character gives you the security that nothing can ever happen.

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  • seekelp
    8 years ago

    Which Malia? It's actually a pretty common name.

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    • truelove3
      8 years ago

      Teen wolf

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