I loathe my friends.....

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i have a too bigger group of friends that i simply just loathe practically all of them. Each day at school i put on a mask of happyness, quietnees and insignificantness. I hang out with my friends of a group of about 7-8 people and find that they are the most boring people who ignore the fact of there own patheticness by being immature. the majority is girls. it's been 4 years and I'm the greatest friend going out, i'd buy presents, help with work, listen, go out of my way for them etc. with no return. But there just a boring group of different minoritys that don't fit in, just boring and never want to do anything.
I'm just sick of things being hidden from me and not being acknowledged. Is it normal for me to feel so distant from them?

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  • lola89
    14 years ago

    THATS WHY IM SOO GLAD HIGH SCHOOL IS OVER!!!

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  • kit-kat-bar
    12 years ago

    you'll get more of a chance to be yourself whenever you get older, try to find something that you are into and focus more on that instead of your so called friends. Being an individual doesn't mean you should turn into an outcast either, also, try to find something interesting that your friends say to you, If you change the way you think, you might learn to be more accepting of them.

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  • Phifur
    14 years ago

    Well the new year started and I was simply over it, I've maintained strong connections with a few of them but have shifted friendship groups and am happy to say that phase has sufficeintly passed. thanks for commenting ;)

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  • ouchez
    14 years ago

    Why are you friends with them?! That is so pointless to have friends you don't like! I wouldn't even consider those people you friends since you don't like them.
    I am sure there are tons of people you could be friends with that you actually like. Why not dump these people and find actual friends.

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  • memyselfandyou
    14 years ago

    You are just mature, and they are not.
    They just need to grow up, I think.
    It's normal, because they just arn't the people for you then. Find yourself some other friends, even if it's just one. Better to have one good friend than 8 friends that don't treat you well, right? :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    It's normal. I think some of my friends are retarded. When you put aside the education, then I think they're really retarded. Try looking for some new friends that have a similar life-style or hobby to yours.

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  • obsessed92
    14 years ago

    I think a lot of teens feel that way. There are so many people at school who are just so shallow and have no depth of character at all. It would be very hard to be friends with them. I suggest leaving that group of people and finding a new set of friends. Look for people who are passionate about what they like to do. Don't settle for dullness. Find people who are interesting to talk to and always have something to say on any given subject.

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  • amplified
    14 years ago

    It is normal to feel like this, and in school, people are trying to establish who they are etc and what they want to do. I had the same problem too and thought about changing schools so i could start a fresh but sometimes more problems can be created from this. School is the hardest time of your life in a way i think, and you dont often make friends that you keep in later life during it, contary to what most people believe/say. My only advice would be re-evaluate if you want to change school if it has come to this, or just have a think about what you want to do - good luck x

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    • Phifur
      14 years ago

      Thank you very much amp, I have done some re-evalueating and have always come to the same crossroads but seeing it written out and simply put all makes much sense now. Thankyou very much :) That believe it or not has made my year which will now make way for a positive new year ahead!!!!!

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  • lotusgirl
    14 years ago

    its called growing up

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    • pete1729
      14 years ago

      what lotusgirl said 1

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