I loathe babies

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I hate babies so much. Only boys though, and I have no idea why, but I hate babies with a burning passion. Their helplessness, how they cry so easily, how they're so innocent, how they're so stupid and dependent on their mothers and how they rely totally upon someone else for everything.
Ever since I was a toddler, I have wanted to hurt babies. I have wanted to pull a baby by it's hair so hard that it screams so loud as his scalp begins to tear.
I have NEVER harmed a baby however, but I want to do such cruel things to them for the sole reason of them being what they are. The only thing preventing me from doing anything in real life is the fact I have siblings, many cousins who are from all different ages, and I feel no urge to harm them.
It's only male babies who I want to torture, but I have no idea why.
I've been surrounded by people who think that (despite all the snot and vomit they're eminating) they're adorable! I get such an urge to just lean forward and bite into an infants face, and keep biting chunks out of his face. It's so disgusting and awful, but I feel satisfied by it.
I don't get it, I just hate them so much. I don't just not like them, I HATE them. I really do. I actually feel contempt when I see something horrible happen to an male infant, but I wish I didn't.
I also don't see why it's only males I hate, whereas I am completely indifferent to female babies, who I just don't want anything to do with.
It makes me feel like such a horrible person because I actually want to see male babies put in driers, or thrown out windows!
I try to look at them as people, not creatures, which has worked quite well. But at the very least, I wish I didn't enjoy seeing babies suffer, but it just fills me with unbelievable satisfaction.

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kristin

13 years ago

3 words. Don't have children.

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xxjenxx

13 years ago

r u male? maybe you have something really horrible in your subconcious memory or something of when you were a cute, little, adorable baby. maybe you just need to find your roots and work from there (there's people who can help). and you seriously can't just ignore you have a problem, and you gotta get better cuz this can be really dangerous. remeber no other being has the right to judge you.

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- orangepeel1235
  
  13 years ago
  
  No, I am female.
  
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lululu

13 years ago

go to a psycologist!!! you need help!

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ll123

13 years ago

It is your fault because you cultivated those thoughts instead of fighting them. It looks like you work really hard on elaborating your cruel fantasies and that you really enjoy them,instead of shutting them down. Bear in mind that bad thoughts are a crime too. A crime to yourself in the first turn. Everybody can have crazy involuntary thoughts, but we should suppress them on time and not let them grow. You should use your rationality. Explain to yourself why infants should not be hated,and try to stick to that mod of thinking. Try to find at least one thing about them that you like, for example, their clothes, and focus on that. If you let the crazy thoughts take over you, you will end up badly.

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- orangepeel1235
  
  13 years ago
  
  I see. Thanks, it's just I do find it difficult not only to suppress horrid thoughts, but also find good things bout them. I'll give it another shot tho.
  
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[Old Memory]

13 years ago

Not normal see a doctor. Im not judjing im concerned! Lol(: get help! && good luck!

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- orangepeel1235
  
  13 years ago
  
  Thanks! :-)
  
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Lockets

13 years ago

I can't believe this story got through the system. This is not just about loathing babies, there is serious, disturbing brutality described here.

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- orangepeel1235
  
  13 years ago
  
  I don't plan on having a baby in case it's male. I hate this feeling like you wouldn't believe, and I'm trying so hard to get it out of me. But when I see a male baby, I just want to sew his pacifier to his mouth so that tears stream from his eyes and he tries to scream but to no avail. I hate this so much, and I'm trying to find a doctor who can help me.
  
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  - Zcb
    
    10 years ago
    
    I play roblox. If i see a baby on ROBLOX its so cute i want to abuse it!
    
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  - nohatingplz
    
    11 years ago
    
    I hope this isn't a joke, because this is some serious shit. This goes way beyond not liking babies or thinking they are dirty. Wanting to sew a pacifier to a baby's mouth and watch him cry helplessly? Really?
    
    The thing to do if you really want to fix this is get to the bottom of it. I would be willing to bet you had an abused twin or something in your past.
    
    Meanwhile.. you really really need to put yourself in that child's place. If that little boy was as big as you, and you were in that stroller.. would you like it if he hurt and abused you and reveled in your suffering? No? Then why can't you understand you shouldn't feel that way about him either. Perspective taking is very important. You seriously need help and I hope for your own sake and for the sake of children where you live you will get it. Not judging.. seriously worried.
    
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ComeFlyWithMe

13 years ago

Not a big fan of babies or kids myself but they can be cute sometimes and definitely don't wish them any harm.

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roggerrogger6

13 years ago

Normal.

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8Serene8

13 years ago

It's k. I am not a fan of children either. And yes it's geared toward boys. They piss me off. Especially if they are fat.

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[Old Memory]

12 years ago

I hate babies too! They smell, they're stupid, and they void the contents of their stomachs all the time. I start liking children after they've grown a brain and can poop for themselves. Otherwise, I can't stand babies.

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Savmagic

13 years ago

Haha your focusing on Someones bad grammar when you want to bite chunks out a Child's face? Get help you fucking piece of shit or burn in hell

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- orangepeel1235
  
  13 years ago
  
  No, I was just criticizing offensive comments.
  
  Tell me again why it's my fault I have these thoughts? Or are you just too scared to reply?
  
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  - nohatingplz
    
    11 years ago
    
    It's not your fault you have these thoughts. IF however, you go around looking for people to affirm these thoughts, instead of realizing they are dangerous, AND you do nothing to work on correcting or at least mollifying these thoughts, THAT is your fault. This is a serious issue. This goes WAY beyond not liking babies. Anybody who revels in the thought of anything helpless and innocent being tortured or killed, whether it be an animal, a baby or a woman, whatever, needs to get help.
    
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[Old Memory]

13 years ago

you are sicko, we'll be seeing you in the news sicko

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- orangepeel1235
  
  13 years ago
  
  Your grammar was so bad, I didn't actually understand what you were saying. I'm assuming you were trying to insult me rather than help me, so go get a life.
  
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StrangeDuckDude

13 years ago

ASSUMING THIS STORY IS NOT A JOKE...
It may not strictly be your fault that you have these feelings, but then again? After all, it most certainly IS your fault that you're still sucking air. You DO have the power to end your existence on this planet... so assholes-and-elbows, dude! If you off yourself, you eliminate any chances of becoming a child murderer.
Considering that it's just your worthless, criminally-inclined life... what HAVE you got to lose by committing suicide, really? Do it, ASAP!

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bouncingoffclouds

13 years ago

For the love of God - do not have children! Better yet, make sure that you never have any contact with children any time, whatsoever.

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Lockets

13 years ago

You are a disgusting, sick person who is in serious need of help.

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- orangepeel1235
  
  13 years ago
  
  I'm disgusting and sick? Thank's that's really helpful.
  
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[email protected]

8 years ago

Orange, I feel the exact same as you. Its not normal. At least I dont feel normal for feeling this way. Like, the other day I was at a wedding and there was a little 2 year old walking down the aisle with some flower girls who were older than him. And the boy baby two year old was like just standing there picking his butt and nose and drooling on himself. Everyone was like AWWWW that baby is so cute, but I just had this urge to kick him in the face for some reason. I know, I know. Its a terrible awful thought. But I think as long as you never act on these thoughts and never let them get the best of you that its fine. Ive never hurt anyone in my entire life, and I wouldn't ever actually hurt a little baby.

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lufa

11 years ago

I have nieces and nephews-no kids of my own, don't really plan on having them.

Personally I'm not a fan of babies, I think that females like them due to maternal instincts. However I love kids once they are able to start talking and you could play with them, then they're a lot of fun.

However your dislike of babies is pretty extreme-particularly your fantasies of doing horrible and vile things to them. You should see a psychiatrist about this.

Maybe your parents forced you to watch over your baby brother or something else that might've instilled this hatred that you have of babies.

Obviously I hope you don't plan on having any kids. It's people like you that crack and end up on the front page news for beating, choking, scalding their children to death. If you have any common sense you'd get your tubes tied.

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nohatingplz

11 years ago

One of the major causes of child abuse is the belief that the child is purposely causing problems for the adult because of selfishness and a desire to manipulate. They are NOT asking for abuse when they cry, rather, they are asking for love, biological care, and social training. Having adults respond in a timely manner to their needs is how babies build trust, which allows them to move on to other important social milestones. Abused and neglected children who are "slapped to shut them up" enough times may develop the lack of ability to bond with anyone. This is the formation of a sociopath. It is extremely important for babies to be loved and tickled, and cooed at and all that other sickly-sweet stuff to build their trust and personalities and to teach them how to love others. Don't knock it, it's not all because adults are too stupid to notice the drool. It's an important feature of child training.

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nohatingplz

11 years ago

Not liking babies as they present themselves to society, well that's one thing. NOBODY IN THEIR RIGHT MIND likes being drooled on, puked on, and pooped on. Nobody likes being up all night, every night, or having stains on all their best clothes, or listening to somebody else's child cry all the way from LA to Chicago. That is normal.

But to HATE them as people, that is what concerns me, and I'm sure, others that read these posts. Your comments sound sociopathic, in fact they sound exactly like the confessions of a pre-serial killer. For God's sake, or for your own, stay away from kids.

I don't enjoy babies myself.. at ALL. Had no motherly feelings towards my firstborn for months. Did all by rote. But by learning to see them as human beings with feelings just as valid as my own, I learned to love them individually.

The worst thing in this post is to see all the comments from mothers and grandparents saying.. oh thank GOD! I LOVE YOU PEOPLE! After reading all the comments about how disgusting babies and children are, if you can say these are great people, there is something wrong with you. Babies SMELL disgusting, but they aren't. They ACT selfish, but they aren't. They are IMMATURE.. just like you.

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NocturnePonyFan

11 years ago

To all you people saying how evil the OP is and how he/she needs help: As long as he/she isn't actually harming babies, there's nothing wrong! God, when babies come into the picture, you people turn so defensive and quick to judge others! Babies bring out the worst in humanity, I tell you what.

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- nohatingplz
  
  11 years ago
  
  Babies bring out the selfishness in us. I'll tell you one thing, they are the best way to cure a selfish young person.. but of course sometimes instead of the mom/dad being cured the baby is just abused. That's why it's so important to have a conscience. And the bottom line with OP is whether or not she WANTS to control her urge to hurt children, and whether or not she CAN. Here she is asking for advice, the same kind of questions that some young pre-killers have asked? Yes there is something wrong.. she needs help.. not to be told she's a-ok or even worse that she's fine and we all feel the same way ourselves. Our society is breeding contempt for the helpless and for babies because we are overcrowded. I think it's happened lots of times and places before, in stressful crowded times. But no matter what..it's never the child's fault.. and to hurt or destroy or even despise a child simply for BEING a child is WRONG.
  
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  - NocturnePonyFan
    
    11 years ago
    
    Are you fucking kidding me? She's not wrong or evil for having those thoughts. If she ACTED upon them, then we'd have a problem. We all have skeletons in our closet. We all have people we hate. For instance, I hate you. I don't there's anything wrong with her, honestly. You can just kindly fuck off and kiss your putrid babies.
    
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    - nohatingplz
      
      11 years ago
      
      She is in the wrong if she nurtures these thoughts, and they could very well lead to her own destruction if not kept in check. NOT ACTING upon one's impulses is not always as easy as it seems. What if she only lacks opportunity? The path she is taking of thinking of these children as fellow human beings WORKS, it's exactly the right thing to do. I don't think she is evil, but wrong.. yes she is and what's more she (if she is a she) knows it.
      
      As for you.. I don't hate you. Hatred in any form is wrong and tears down society. You are free to hate me all you want, if it makes you happy. And for the record, my babies are adults, and I'm not looking forward to having grandkids, but I sure as HELL hope I never get the urge to bite one of their faces off, because being a baby is NOT THEIR FAULT.
      
      This is why everyone posts that you people should remember you were babies once yourselves. It's called empathy, or in modern terms, perspective taking. The dearth of empathy in this society is symptomatic of overcrowding and excess wealth. It happens. However, that does not make it "normal" to hate the young of your own species. Obviously, this is counterproductive in evolutionary terms, as well as being a disgusting display of abuse of power over the helpless.
      
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      - NocturnePonyFan
        
        11 years ago
        
        I was a baby once too? REALLY? Holy fucking shit I had no idea!!!!!!!
        
        Seriously, I want to punch you in the face. But I would never act on it, because I have self control. Like the OP. Kindly piss the fuck off.
        
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Monogamy_Sucks

12 years ago

i hate babies too,,i hate families with their babies and children and stuff like that.its boring and it doesnt suit me .Id never hurt a baby,i actually pretend to like them but deep down they bore me and its not my type off thing

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- nohatingplz
  
  11 years ago
  
  This is the kind of baby-hating I think society can live with. Not your thing, as you say.. fine and dandy. Wanting to hurt, maim and kill another person of any age NOT OK.
  
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  - Monogamy_Sucks
    
    11 years ago
    
    i havent been in here in 2 months so im late to reply,yes everyone has the right to decide for themselves
    
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insertstupidscreenname

12 years ago

I cant stand babies or children every time I hear a baby cry or a kid attempt to speak without sounding retarded I just want to slap them. I cant stand them even being in the same building as me why cant parents leave them at home, and if you cant find someone to watch them and that is why you bring them with you, you should have known better and never had them. They ruin lives, and make everyone around you miserable. Why cant science figure out a way to eliminate the baby, child, and teenager out of the life cycle and make everyone start life at 21 and fully educated.

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wreckd

13 years ago

I never liked babies much as a kid but now i have a 6 month old son. as long as you don't act on your feelings i would say you are perfectly fine. however, if you ever have a son, i would say get help fast.

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Anonymous Post Author

13 years ago

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UwtzzJ_duSI

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alanieundead

13 years ago

oh jeeze, that's really disturbing. :/ You need to talk to someone about this.

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DC61091

13 years ago

I hate 5 year olds, just 5 year olds.

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8Serene8

13 years ago

^This. I may not like children either, but if I one day have one I know I will love her/him.

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gowila

13 years ago

Sounds like you didn't mature past 3 or 4 years of age. Nah just kidding, my wife didn't like them till we had one. I think you need one of your own to appreciate them.

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  11 years ago
  
  That is TERRIBLE advice. "You need one of your own to appreciate them"? Really? What do you say about the babies that were born to abusive parents? It sounds like those parents don't appreciate their own. Your advice really sucks, dude.
  
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  - nohatingplz
    
    11 years ago
    
    I'm not sure about that. I didn't really have any appreciation whatsoever for babies or kids until I had my first. That forced me to deal with being a mom, and putting up with all the stuff they do every day. I'll tell you what, though, that first time they smile at you, bring you a flower, gaze at you with unmitigated love in their eyes, it has an effect. On top of that there is a HUGE release of oxytocin at the birth of one's child, and a smaller burst in the father, that strongly bonds people to their own children for life. Some people just really only like their own kids.
    
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    - NocturnePonyFan
      
      11 years ago
      
      So...how do you explain the huge amount of neglected and beaten children, then? I guess those mothers took one look at their newborn child and fell deeply in love, right?
      I really don't get breeder logic.
      
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- orangepeel1235
  
  13 years ago
  
  I would but I'm worried I might tear his limbs off if it's a boy :(
  
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  - nohatingplz
    
    11 years ago
    
    Orange it's not horrible that you don't like kids, but it seems like your feeling go way beyond that and if you can get over worrying about what the therapist might think I really believe you ought to try to get to the bottom of it. Seriously. You don't want to end up as a child-killer or some horrible thing like that. So what if you don't like babies, that's fine lots of ppl don't. I don't really like them either. But you have to be socially aware enough to be able to see things from the baby's perspective. They are helpless, unable to defend themselves, and did not ask to be born. It would be good to know why you have such strong feelings about this, and maybe even alleviate them.
    
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bloksow

13 years ago

DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE!!!!!! But, try to keep in mind that the babies will eventually grow up and not remain babies forever. Also, for your own sake, do try to see a doctor.

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