I like when my boyfriends treat me bad

im one of the girls who likes bad boys. the only thing is i like when they treat me bad. not like abuse but they talk shit about me to my face and behind my back. joke around with me like one of his guys. flirts with other girls and talks about how hot some other girl is in front of me. some times i kinda get a little mad but i just shake it off and go right to him if he wants me. no guy has ever treated my differently but i know it isn't right. but is it normal?

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21% Normal
Based on 72 votes (15 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • dafattyfat

    .. You're convincing yourself that you like this.
    You don't.

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    • dreamhisgirl

      I also agree. She likes him, but doesn't like what he's doing to her. And now she's justifying it.

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  • andrian007

    You're not the only girl who behaves this way but that doesn't mean that this is alright. It's never normal to allow yourself to be treated like this by your boyfriend. I suggest you start looking for someone else. You're still young, you have lots of time. Leave him and find someone else.

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  • Tempest-au

    I've seen this a lot - women who seem to actually enjoy being publicly shamed and humiliated, treated like crap, etc.

    Personally, I think they have some major self-esteem issues - I mean Roleplaying this sort of submission might be okay, but actually seeking it out as a lifestyle choice?

    In any event, these women don't seem to be able to maintain a lengthy relationship, flitting from one "bad boy" to the next, much like a biker mole doing the train...

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

    Way to disrespect yourself. Have you ever considered what low self esteem you must have to do this to yourself??? Be kind track down a copy of a book called 'the catch'. Read it and then see how you feel. You'll be glad you did girl! :)

    PS Real bad boys don't flock like a pack of turkey's. They fly solo like an eagle. Find a bad boy like that and you got it made girl. He will never dis you. He will never make you jealous of other women. He will worship the ground you walk on and make other women wish they were you. Now that's a bad bad man! Lol

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  • mokuton

    fool

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  • smojoe92

    For some reason, it is normal, but that doesn't make a good thing. Why is it normal? I have no fucking clue, I give up trying to understand why.

    Could you help understand, cause it doesn't make any fucking sense.

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  • i dont know are they magic in bed

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  • dappled

    I honestly don't know. Women seem to actually enjoy some level of bad behaviour. My friends tell me that my biggest failing in the dating department is that I'm too nice. And, to be fair, they're with people and I'm single. I just can't bring myself to be wilfully mean.

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    • bobigny06

      DESTINY IS THE ROLE

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  • chome

    Yea I've seen this a lot, it's not good and it's a habit I'd try to break but unfortunately it's more normal than I would like.

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