I like to pretend i'm a female online?

I know a lot of guys pretend to be girls online for personal gain, like how in MMOs they'd do it for free items or money. Recently I've discovered I also really enjoy pretending to be a girl online.

To clarify, I'm pretty sure I'm heterosexual. I find no real attraction to men when I see them in real life with maybe one exception but I knew him real well as a best friend, meanwhile there's no end to the amount of girls I find attractive.

I just like to pretend to be a really energetic, flirty, sometimes slutty girl online. In games I'd pretend to be a "damsel in distress" who needs a "big, strong man" to save her, and then proceed to stroke said man's ego and get turned on knowing I'm probably boosting his confidence big time by being his prize.

I'd also let said guys win against me a lot (without making it obvious I'm doing so - put up a little resistance at least) and then shower him with praise and compliments about how badly he owned me to further boost his ego and simultaneously get me so aroused in a way few things can match. Especially if they respond by rubbing it in my face - whole other level of arousal when they respond by laughing in victory, let me tell ya.

I just really love playing the role of a submissive girl that, try as she might, will cave in to the masculine charm of a more skilled male.

I've not once thought of or desired to become transgendered or cross dress. And I never will, as I'm perfectly happy being a dude in real life. But there's just some strange thrill in being subservient to a guy's whims online, even if there's 0 attraction to men in real life for me... though when a guy sends me a dick pic I get a bit hot and bothered by it.

I dunno. It's probably pretty weird, but how many other people feel similar? Is it more normal or common than I thought? Real confused about my sexuality right now to be honest.

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Based on 83 votes (58 yes)
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  • Boogyboy

    It's very simple. You have bisexual tendencies which you are repressing, probably because of socio-cultural reasons. What we resist persists. The more you try to suppress these desires the more they will come out in one way or another and for you it's by role playing as a girl online. It's not about being a girl though, it's about taking in a submissive role ie you desire to be someone's bitch and be dominated sexually.
    Everyone is somewhere on the spectrum but most people on the heterosexual end don't admit it to themselves let alone other people because sadly it's still easier, more convenient and socially acceptable to identify as straight which is ridiculous because not many people are 100% straight. I suggest you find yourself a hunk and suck some dick to find out if you really like it. Life is too short to live with one hand tied behind your back. Also you could maybe find a nice bi girl who you can share your desires with and doesn't mind you doing it with a guy every now and then.

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  • sourgrapes

    No its not bloody well normal.ffs.

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  • CozmoWank

    Sometimes I like to dress up as Dorothy and sing Somewhere Over The Rainbow.

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  • keru

    I was the first to vote normal lol

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  • RoseIsabella

    You have latent homosexual and trans tenencies that you're afraid of perhaps? Regardless you're being deceptive, but the Internet is full of other people like yourself. Perhaps some of the big macho men you met are actually little butch lesbians or transgender guys. No matter what you're not really special, unique or interesting, because online folks like you are a dime a dozen.

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  • SockUnicorn92

    I like complimenting men while pretending to be a woman online. Same thrill to stoke his ego.

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  • Evansman7

    Oh I love be feminine. Im getting where I keep my legs shaved so yeah your fine...I like putting on panties...like love❤❤ and girls clothes, and since I am bisexual, when I sleep with guys i fuck like a women, like I get on top and my hips/pelvis area moves like a girl, course that gets me hotter

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  • sydslytherin

    I think you're personally submissive but don't want to show it as yourself, so you decided to follow your submissive urges as a "girl" because it's culturally acceptable for girls to be submissive, but not guys.

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  • randypete

    is this on second life ?

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  • Couman

    Don't see anything weird about playing an opposite sex character in an online game. Although you might be taking it to an extreme. I wouldn't even call it deceptive unless you specifically claim to be female in real life.

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  • RoyRogers

    Maybe you secretly want to be a woman?

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  • arthurtheaardvark99

    I used to do that, it's fun at first because as a guy you know exactly what turns guys on and what they want to see and hear, and knowing how you're playing with their emotions, but (at least in my experience) it's hard to keep up that persona for long because I just don't know what it's like to be a woman and some of that does eventually shine through in my interactions with guys and they can sometimes pick it up pretty fast because they're also suspicious of fake female profiles too.

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  • ChelseaGonzales

    Yes this is very normal. Sometimes it's hard being a female especially when your not a female. Coming from a female I would know. And I get very sad if a guy sends me a dick pic and they block you because you didn't reply fast enough.

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  • kiwipoo

    You are a closet fag i guess...

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