I like this guy but i feel like he's to good for me

So for the first time ever I build up the confidence to talk to a guy I really like because I realized if not ill be single for ever, and I've gotten to know him a lot more and I just think he's great and I'm always putting my self down now because I don't see how a guy like him could ever like someone like me, and its weird because I think I'm a great person. and I just want him to see I like him but I don't know how to make that happen is it normal to put your self down like this?

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  • NothingxCrazy

    Get some confidence. There's no reason you shouldn't give it a shot. Who knows, maybe he feels he's not good enough for you as well.

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  • Sensate

    I would like to say it isnt normal, but really, alot of people feel like this. More girls then guys I think, not sure though.

    Its kind of frustrating to me because I have been 'let go' by girls because they didnt feel worthy

    A couple of weeks back I ended up in bed with this totally gorgeous girl who could be a model and had real personaliy and was allround interesting. All I could think was "why the hell is this amazing girl getting into bed with a guy like me"
    I suppose in that sense I am the same, I didnt feel worthy...however I very much enjoyed my time with her and set aside those feeling because we connected very well.

    In the end she was the one who told me she didnt deserve me and I was baffled even more. To think a girl as perfect as her would feel so insecure.

    I think the point i'm trying to make is that almost everybody feels like this (some are better at hiding it than others), and often times we end up sabotaging ourselves with these "he/she is too good for me" thoughts. Its not that weird when you think about it, because when you're in love with someone you think the world of them, and then it gets hard to see yourself as the right guy/girl for this amazing person.

    Ignore those feelings and go for it, dont let your own insecurities fuck you over

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  • EAT_IT

    Take me... I cook, clean and I only fart when people aren't around.

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    • Johnnytherat

      i know a classy man when i see one... thats a classy man right there

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  • Shackleford96

    Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. Go out for a coffee or something ;)

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  • Aewe101

    @sensate your so right I could not really explain what I was feeling and you just did he's the world to me and when you feel that way it's hard to see how I could be the same for him :|

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  • kit291

    you should make a move before you stay in just friend zone.

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  • jucedaguy

    Leonard has a spell for just this type of situation. You must go to the temple NOW!
    Hurry much my friend, it is a good temple, he will forever publish good things about that temple.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Romance really isn't as complicated as people think it is. Just as well, it's not as formulated and set in stone as people like to think it is.

    I have seen the poor marry to the rich and the dirty marry to the virtuous. There's no such thing is "this has to be this way" in romance. There are people who have been married 20 years that fucked on the first date and people who divorced after 5 that followed every traditional dating ritual.

    My point is, don't take anything as inevitable with a relationship unless you have tried to make it work. For all you know, he'd be crazy about you, but you have no way of knowing that yet.

    Fear of rejection is one of the biggest causes of unwanted single-ness I have ever seen. Learn to get over it now or chances are good that you WILL be single for ever.

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  • Energy

    Just remember...no one is worse than you and no one is better than you. All human beings are equal. Guys like girls with confidence. Not the conceited kind... But, he sounds like an Alpha male. And if you want an Alpha, you have to also be an equal Alpha. Just go for it is what I'm trying to say! xD

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  • Terence_the_viking

    You need to make a move before you and fired zoned.

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    • jucedaguy

      Fired zone isn't good. No job, and there's all that stop drop n roll shit too.

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      • Terence_the_viking

        Haha i'm convinced you are stalking me.

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        • jucedaguy

          <.<
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          *suspicious as fuck*

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