I like my best friends boyfriend...

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Okay, so like a month ago I agreed to text this guy that I had never met and convince him to go out with my friend. Blah blah blah, this and that, they're dating. Now, me and him are really good friends, but I think I like him. He calls me cute sometimes, like when were playing around. I let it slip that I once pictured him shirtless and he keeps cracking cute little jokes and saying its adorable that I picture him that way and that I keep getting defensive. He knows I like him. I think he may like me too, but I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. Does he like me? What should I do? Any advice? Is it normal to feel like this with your friends boyfriend? Please and thank you.

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago | pl

    Don't even think about it. That's your best friend's boyfriend, show her and yourself some dignity and respect. Tell him to stop flirting with you. That's what you need to do, not 'does he like me'. He has got to stop calling you cute. It's not cute, it's really mean to her. Unless setting her up to start distrusting and building walls is what you want.

    What I'm saying is that you're at a line right now. You can choose to cross it, lose trust, lose a bf, gain a jerk bf -or- you can pull back from it and not lose anything but sexual gratification- which your bf can do.

    To answer your question, yes people develop interest in their friend's sig. others, and sig. other's friends. But a person of good character won't tempt that interest.

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    • valisque
      11 years ago

      ARGH! do people not get it?

      Okay i'm gonna be the first person here to say something that make's sense. GO GET HIM!

      1. You are the ONLY reason her and him are going out, okay? Don't mean that there was/is/ever will be any chemistry between them.

      2. If you got along better with him, then it may be worth the sacrifice compared to what normally follows; unrequited feelings on your end and possibly his too. Take my word for it, that sh** HURTS! You don't wanna be on its receiving end.

      3. Who cares about doing the right thing if 2 out of 3 people end up miserable? Justify the sense in that oh and while you're at it tell me what part of him liking the girl he met first makes him a jerk anyways?

      Oh and Darkoil got a point to. Just remember the rubbers if you're into that.

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      • curiouskate101
        11 years ago

        u are a fucking idoit please dont listen to her. i think all you have is lust for him which will go away soon. yes u setted them up . you shouldnt set them up than try dating him thats wrong! whst kind of friend are you? seriouly put yourself in that seneiro with u as your bestfriend how would u feel? the fact that u even complated this sickin me. shes ur bestfriend! she trust you. dont lose her over a stupid boy

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Do people know still know what the word respect means?

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    • Terence_the_viking
      11 years ago

      I was wondering that.

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    • valisque
      11 years ago

      Screw respect.

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  • NeonLighterz
    11 years ago

    You guys could swap boyfriends.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    The moment you two get together, he will use you sexually and leave you hanging. I do not like this part of my past, but as a guy, I have done this just to get sexual pleasure and nothing more. You more likely than not will be left single losing your current boyfriend, not having the new guy, and losing the best friend.

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  • 048forlife
    11 years ago

    Normal, yes. Good, no.

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  • lololTROLLlolol
    11 years ago

    I'd like to make it clear that I'm 17.

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  • Mouse248
    11 years ago

    don't do it ! if it's anything like what happened to me you will just hurt yourself and others around you and be left with no one and nothing.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    You sound like a very immature girl. I got the sense form the "Like" used out of context and the use of "blah blah blah." He's flirting with you obviously. I'm assuming you're very young. I don't think you should date your bestfriends boyfriend, but I do think your boyfriend probably doesn't need a girl like you who who's looking at another guy that way. Hoes over bros. You should keep your friend and not fuck over that relationship for a guy you should distance yourself from.

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  • lololTROLLlolol
    11 years ago

    You guys don't understand. We talked fr like MONTHS before they dated, so were really good friends now. That's just how we've always been with eachorher. Kinda flirty, kinda awkward. Like, I'm the one he goes to when his girlfriends pissing him off. It's not like we're being flirty ad awkward behind her back, she know s were like this.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Just have sex with him then you will definitely know if you like each other, just don't tell your respective others.

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