I like loneliness

I have a tendancy to be alone most of the time . In fact, I do hang out with bunch of friends on a weekly and sometimes daily basis but mostly I adore being alone especially with the presence of distractions like satelite and internet . I even bet that i can manage to stay weeks alone . Is that natural ? . By the way, sometimes, I feel so dejected when alone . Please comment on whether you find it fine or not, and if not, give some clues and advice .

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  • being alone is the best .

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  • ven067

    I agree, being alone is awesome!
    We should be alone together sometime lol

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  • tornwithin

    im so like that too.. i hope its normal cuz i love being alone more then with friends most the time

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    • UScavalry

      I agree, being alone can be great. Sometimes I like to go out on a stormy night and walk in the woods, but I'd never do this with another person. Being alone is just so relaxing to me.

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  • myweirdself16

    all my friends suck except for 4 of them. i like being alone because no one can annoy me with their stupid drama that they cause.

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  • sararose:)

    i think about things to much wen i hang with my frends i always wunder if they realy wana hang owt...... so i hang owt wit myself lol that way i know no1 is thnking bowt me..i feel lonly men im alone

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  • karmarainbow

    yep, most people suck. i only trust myself.

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  • TheQuietOne

    Your fine in fact you sound like someone who doesn't necessarily enjoy as much as you enjoy the recharge you get from staying alone after being out with people. I say that because you say that you could be alone for weeks like that's a long time and speaking as someone who really is alone weeks are nothing I've gone months without being around people I've even done a year without anyone to talk to no friends no anything

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  • thing1smf

    Solitude and Loneliness are two completely different things. I absolutely love being alone, I find it super relaxing and enjoyable. But, if you feel sad for being on your own, or you feel as if you'd rather be with someone else, hang out and don't seclude yourself. Just do what feels best!

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  • migetgirl13

    i hope its normal cuz thats how i am. I like being alone cuz no one can judge, theres not dousche bags to deal with, and i can just let my imagination comfort me with fantasies that are 99.99% not likely to happen.

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  • sparrowfeed

    lol i might be a schizoid, then. except that i enjoy certain people. ...

    i love it, though.
    insanity fuels the creative juices.

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  • It's normal of course. People need their quiet time.

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  • jameilious

    I think maybe you have a scizoid personality like me, and it's not really any problem, I love the night because I can stay up for like 7 hours on my own on the internet, no one else around. Only problems with it are I can't really keep a relationship because I get pissed off with seeing them so often.

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  • PoisonFlowers

    I also like being alone and doing things alone. Being alone helps my creativity. I can go for long periods being more or less alone (my family going about their own business around the house), but that makes it easy for me to get sucked into depression. I get out of the house occasionally so that I don't seem like a complete weirdo!

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  • GalacticEgg

    It's called 'introversion'. I'm an introvert as well.

    In any case, for more information, you like to be distracted, and personality tests are fairly distracting :) You should try this Jungian typology test and see if what you find out interests you:

    http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes1.htm

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  • anabolic19

    im the same
    the only time im not really alone is when im with my girlfriend
    shes the only person i can stand being around
    i just like to be alone
    i always go to the gym on my own my friends always want to come with me so i can train them but i dont like it

    its probably not agood thing but its the way we are so i guess its normal

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  • tonight_lightning_strikess

    I also feel that way. I love nice alone time.

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  • thischick

    thats exactly how i am.
    i mean i have alot of friends and stuff but i'd rather stay at home alone with a book and a computer then go out.
    none of my friends are like that tho.

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  • bitethebrat

    It's normal. Introverts need alone time to recharge and think.

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  • andrian007

    You're perfectly normal. Most people love to hang out with others but occasionally would like sometime alone, that's just the way it is. You just happen to like being alone more than others, this just means you're more of the introvert type. Nothing wrong with you, mate.

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  • BlackSheep1

    I'm the same way, being alone can be very nice sometimes, but if I'm alone too often I get really sad and depressed.

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