I like it when i my girlfriend gets close to other guys, iin?

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Hi, I have a perfect girlfriend who loves, me cares for me and does not let other guys get close to her. Never fails to make me her priority even in catogeries such as education or career or her family.

Its been a while i have this feeling, where i like my gf getting close to other guys romatically or sexually. It exites me and when i learn about such incident. I sometime link her with other guys and create situations where they can talk. My gf in other hands is a reserved girl and does not like other guys getting close to her except me. why do i feel this way? I dont like it but it is as if i want it. As if im adicted to it. I dont want to loose her as my gf we aso want to get married and half of that way is already been completed. Her parents love me and my parents love her too. But why do i have this weird feeling? what is it that exites me so much even when i do not like it. To make matter worse i am a posesive guy to an extent.

who ever reads this would say im metaly disturbed or im comletely crazy, i say this because i think that after i read this. Im not crazy or need any medical help. Because im aware or the situation and i want this feeling to get out. please help me sugest me something good. because this feeling is weakening our relation.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I bet you would love a threesome.

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  • unsetteledguy
    12 years ago

    thank you for the comemnt factoria, she has never cheated on me and i do trust her completely, and as far nothing sexual has happned yet and i have complete faith that she would never cheat on me. But she is aware of this fantasy i have and she has a small problem with it. we have small argument of why do i let other guys just talk to her like that and why i dont stop her if she plays along. even though she knows i trust her she expects me to be more contoring. and frankly she is liek a free bird, she like to do what she wants and does not like to be told. because of this there are some misunderstanding and arguments that developes thats affecting our relationship. so the matter here is when other guys flirt with her or when she goes alone, i dont have an issue with that and on the other hand if i do tell her to stop doing something related to it, her limits fall short. so i dont know how to get it balanced.

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    • joybird
      12 years ago

      If you are there when other guys are making sexual suggestions to her and she feels uncomfortable, she expects you to intervene and 'save' her. Whereas, it seems that you are standing there enjoying your little fantasy. You should never allow a man to make a move on her in front of you as they are disrespecting you.

      Anyhow it's just a little fantasy coz it's the opposite of what she's truly like. Just don't let in interfere with real life or you are going to lose this great girl.

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  • factoria
    12 years ago

    I think when you trust the person you're with completely, seeing them flirt with others or see others flirt with them (not seriously flirt, of course) is honestly sort of funny or charming, to me at least. I guess it's like taking a step back and seeing them in a different sexual light. As long as she doesn't actually cheat on you (and she seems like a good girlfriend who is loyal to you) and you don't want her to cheat on you, this seems normal. It's just a little fantasy.

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