I like him but he likes my best friend

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okay so there is this guy,and i really like him,but he is in love with my best friend. He will alaways flirt with her and text her compliments, and a few months ago my best friend and I rented an apartment together and put on a little party. At the party all the guys, especailly the guy i like, were all on her, and i forgot to mention... she doesnt like him back! so basically she leads him on while i sit back and deal with guys always being up on her, ans she swears she doesnt like any of the guys
is this normal?
should i ignore it?
stop liking him? can some one please help me with this?

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  • FocoUS
    11 years ago

    I would stop liking him. It just seems like a hassle and unnecessary effort to me.

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    • IrishPotato
      11 years ago

      It's impossible to control ones emotions on command.

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      • FocoUS
        11 years ago

        I know it's different per person. But from my perspective, that's what I'd do.

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        • IrishPotato
          11 years ago

          Or atleast try.

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  • truercheese
    11 years ago

    If you really think this is worth trying for, talk to your best friend. Tell her it would help if she'd stop giving him the attention back, so you could try and make a move.

    But in my opinion, you should find someone better.

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  • thoughtfulopt29
    11 years ago

    Soemtimes I click on these to see if i'm the guy haha.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Oh come on people its quite obvious this best friend from the story really does hate attention. Why I bet she never invites it on herself and probably dresses real conservatively as well....

    If he gives his attention to her, along with the rest of the other idiot guys then why not just stop bothering and try to find the guy that isnt attracted to a crappy girl like your best friend?

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  • someoneawesome
    11 years ago

    I'm a girl and I flirt with EVERY GUY I know! Lol even my guy friends! Not in purpose but apprently when ever I speak to a guy for some reason they intercept it as flirting! Maybe if I tell him u like him it's sort out

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    Dude, flirting doesn't say anything. I apperentally flirt all the time and it doesn't mean anything.

    Hell, I don't even do it on purpose. I just compliment honestly and apperentally that's concidered flirting.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    thank you guys so much for your help on this. just a little story on how things are now.
    well i told her that i like him, and she said i could have him, but the thing is, he still flirts with her! so i guess i will be moving on from him, ill also try to ignore all the attention she gets from craved guys.

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    • kelili
      11 years ago

      you should stop being so stupid

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        11 years ago

        hey asshole if u expect for people to help u out and not act like bitches to you... then maybe you should shut the fuck up
        (pardon my language everybody else)

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        • kelili
          11 years ago

          touched.. Lol

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    just move on. life is too short to get stuck on one guy.

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  • ILoveJoshHutcherson
    11 years ago

    I HAVE THE EXACT SAME SITUATION
    Except in the person that the guy likes
    (sorry) honestly I don't like him but my friend totally does but everyone knows there not meant to be and she should stop liking him

    You want to be in a relationship with a guy that when he sees you thinks "wow that's the girl for me" you don't want to be the girl who's second best so he just dates you because the other one doesn't like you
    YOUR BETTER THAN THAT
    HE'S NOT YOUR GUY
    Don't let opportunities pass you by
    You want a guy that likes YOU
    I'm sorry

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  • AtomicCollider
    11 years ago

    Love triangles are normal.

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