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Okay so i like this guy, and he is very sweet and he has even said that he flirts with me. The only thing in the way, is his girlfriend that he claims he is happy with. Can you be truly happy with someone if you say another girl is awesome and flirt with them all the time? It wouldn't be hard for me to get over him but i mean is there something there..or no?
he might just honestly think you are a cool person; but he has a girlfriend.
FEB 2009-- issue solved by now-- BUT
he is using you to feed his ego. Flirting is fun, how can you even THINK of taking him seriously?
I'd have to say that this guy is behaving like a complete prat. Basically he's flirting with you just for fun, rather than actually having feelings for you. He knows that you can't be together and he still flirts with you. Not cool. Seems like he's leading you on. I'd forget about him, before he breaks your heart. That's probably all he's good for, the scumbag. Forget about him. There's still good-looking guys out there, who have great personalities to match.
umm this was a long time ago. ohh and also im not this girls friend. im not a slut. and im not involved with him. sorry that your a bad friend.
all i have to say is if you are this other girls friend, dont get involved. the outcome can be horrible for all of you. you will hurt her feelings, she will dump him, and then never talk to either of you again, and then he will be mad at you for making her dump him, and will never talk to you again, and you will be known as a slut and you will die alone with 500 pregnant cats that will get more action than you. lol. all of this happened to me. (except for the whole dying and cats thing) take it from someone who knows. just be careful and make the best decision for all of you.
''if you say another girl is awesome'' lol maybe you said your awesome. seems like your just a whore tho
WEll sometimes boys cant stop flurting its like and urge even if they are taken ! it coz of the thrill and dont take this the wrong way but are you sure its not just meningless flurting just for fun ?!?!
PS - next time he flirts say "Don't you already have a girlfriend?" That puts the ball in his park & leaves you free, I think.
Flirting is usually pretty harmless. But because you have feelings for him, well, maybe its stirring things up a little more than he intends/knows or that you are comfortable with. You sound pretty considerate and I don't think you would like to rock his and his girlfriend's boat. Stay cool and look elsewhere.
He knows that you know he has a girlfriend. So he flirts and jokes around. You are a FEMALE FRIEND. He likely has others he teases and flirts with.
I know this because I do it too! Seems to be no dishonesty here.
He told you he's ready to get out of he 5 month relationship. Migtht be code for 'are you interested?'. Why would he say that and risk having it get back to her?
As an idea ,for closure, see if he wants to do lunch or Starbucks - kinda pseudo date - try to gauge his interest.
Ah, typed all that and realized its June, classes are over!
What will you do if you "get" him, and he treats you like he's treating her?
There might be something there, but if I were you I would just move on. Either he really likes his girlfriend and is just flirting with you for fun (which does happen, doesn't mean he doesn't get on with his gf), or he's going behind his gf's back looking for different girls, and that's probably not the kind of guy you'd want to go with.
Yeah, i should move on. He is in a lot of my classes and our professor is always saying that we talk to much we might as well date. I always feel really awkward when She says this and we always just blush and go back to talking. I think the best way for me to not like him is to not talk to him, but that will be hard because he is my partner in almost all classes..