I like him

So theres this guy, from online. And I like him. Hes in his 30's and Im 17, but I like him. He is not like those guys who ask for nudes or video chats but only voice calls because all he wants is to hear my voice and he does the same. He respects me and always asks how my day is and thats what I love it about him. Hes a really nice guy but is it wrong for me a 17 yr old to be talking to a 30 sonething yr old?

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Comments ( 11 )
  • Poisonous-Cupcakes

    You should fuck him before someone else takes him. Say that you wanna suck his dick. That's going to turn him on.

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    • Himars11

      What the fuck’s wrong with you?

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  • Slowlymovingfast

    Be cautious, but talk to him.

    There is a chance that he's just a nice guy who senses something in you that will better both of you.

    Unfortunately there's always the chance that he's a creep, so again just be cautious.

    I'm in my mid, okay late, 30s and I feel a kindred spirit in late teens early 20s people.

    Not in any sexual way at all but I'm really really immature socially and intellectually.

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  • IrishPotato

    It's absolutely wrong.

    You're in puberty. He's a full grown adult.

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  • ZEDOKTORISTPLZD

    Nothing wrong with being in love. Just remember that you’re underage, which makes you a minor. I would wait till you’re 18 to resume a relationship with this man. But besides that, love is a beautiful, amazing thing. Another thing I’m concerned about is that he won’t show you his face. It doesn’t matter that you’re underage, you have the right to know what he looks like. If he refuses when you ask, just remember that that’s a very bright red flag.

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  • TerriAngel

    Some people just click.
    If you like the on line thing.
    I see no harm.
    If you want to take the next step.
    That's your business.
    Knowone elses.
    Still in puberty my ass.
    Like you somehow magically become an adult the very day you turn 18.
    Some people mature quicker than others.
    A responsible 16 year old on the pill fucking the whole football team.
    Is more mature than some unmarried skank in her 30s with 5 kids from 5 guys, now expecting #6.
    She keeps getting ( unplanned pregnancies )
    To immature to know how the process works.

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  • lordofopinions

    Be REALLY careful and if you do decide to meet up make sure it's in a very public place. Check for a place where you can check out when he gets there. If he comes alone that's a good start. He he's not alone GET OUT OF THERE. Also don't get talked into going anywhere with him, not on a first meeting.

    IMO he's too old for you for a hookup but it's your call. You can still be friends.

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  • Iszzy123

    Might I ask how you two meet ?

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  • Another one asking for trouble. Online relationships are a bad idea already, why compound the problem.

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  • Rictictavie

    The fact that he doesn't want to do video chat is disturbing. Maybe he is just a nice guy and only wants to hear your voice. Or maybe he has a secret...have you ever seen him or met him in person?

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    • No

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