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Where to begin at work we had work function, a get together we all went to a nice club got hammered on the company tab, i found out the girls likes me and i like her shes attractive funny, since we have been flirting constantly but for some reason i don't want to be with her i'm not sure why as i said i like her so i don't understand anyone have any insights? Is it normal?
Maybe you just like her as a friend. It seems like you enjoy spending time with her, just not attracted to her as anything else. It's completely normal
I Think it's normal. A friend of mine had a crush on my current boyfriend we'd talk about him how ever she really didnt ant to be in a relationship dispite the fact that she had feelings for him. If your not ready, or dont feel like it its cool. like dont sweat its normal
It's probably that you've known her and liked and trusted her for a long time, and don't want to ruin you friend relationship.
i shall go for it.
thankyou to everyones advice i shall you know who had the correct theory :) lol
Ask her for a date like go for malts and a movie or something. Or just keep it separate from work and be all professional and lonely. Your call, but dont call ghostbusters cause all they do is bust ghosts and shit.
Is it because you see her only as a really really good friend or that you see her as a romantic partner, but you don't see yourself with her in the long run? Of the second one, it could be a strong infatuation... yeah, my romance tips aren't the best...
i honestly don't know i got out of a serious relationship on a few months ago, and i have been thinking that could be why, and no shes not a good friend i havent known her for that long only a month or two, maybe its because im afraid i will find out i only want her for sexx and hurt her but im unsure because if it is just because i am lonely its a selfish reason i don't know im hopeless with feelings and such.. lol
Maybe your head is ruling here and you won't mix business with pleasure. Seems quite sensible to me.
i think you might be right im about to get made 2IC (only me and the boss know about this) and idk if i can be with someone that im higher up than also i wouldn't want anyone to think im giving her more opportunities at work ect, but maybe im over thinking things maybe i do like her as a friend, i usually dont have to even think twice about these things i just go for it and what happens happens.