I like being female, but don't like females. iin?

There's 2 things I like about being female....the body (looks) and being with men sexually.

I love being female because I just love being with men and men love being with women!! I enjoy being attractive to a man.

I like to look like a female-clothes, hair, etc.

I have almost nothing in common with most females, beyond what I mentioned above. I participate in mostly "male" activities, I'm rough, I have a "male" job, I'm extremely strong physically, I'm dirty, I'm far smarter than most females (and most males too, but there's more smarter and similarly-minded males than females). I like to build things, fix things, think of ideas, talk about ideas, solve problems (REAL problems, not the quandary of matching the shoes to the purse)...women just don't do this as much, or at all for many of them. I don't want to talk about TV shows, clothes, ripping on men, being "fat", jealousy or other nonsense that seems to be the bulk of female conversation. It's a one in a million shot to find a female that primarily has intelligent and productive conversations. It's also a one in a million shot to find a female that has any practical knowledge, that you don't have to explain everything to or aren't worlds apart from.

I understand men, I prefer the company of men. I gave up on women as a child, I saw quickly they have little or nothing to offer and was only proven right with every passing year as I grew up and encountered more and more women, one as useless as the next.

IIN?

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  • VioletTrees

    Read up on "special snowflake syndrome". That's exactly what this is.

    Look, yes, some women are shallow and silly. But some of us are awesome. It's very common for women to go through a period of their lives where we think that other women are "too dramatic" or don't have much to offer. I was like that for a while. The thing is, though, while some of us our like that, a lot of us are awesome. Yes, a lot of women like girly things, but most of us also have other interests. I like makeup, but I also like science, running, cars, video games, horror, and guns. A lot of women like to do what dirtybirdy calls "dude stuff". But if you avoid talking to women because you assume you won't like us, or if you lose interest as soon as somebody mentions anything girly, you're not giving us a chance. Some of us might surprise you.

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    • You couldn't be more wrong .

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      • VioletTrees

        Ok?

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        • I never said I dismissed anyone immediately.

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          • VioletTrees

            Don't you? If you actually tried to start conversations with women about meaningful or practical things, you would know that most women have some knowledge about practical things. Very few people stay completely within gender roles as far as interests and knowledge are concerned, and even if they did, many traditionally female activities (childcare, teaching, cooking, sewing, etc) are quite practical.

            It sounds to me like you might be frustrated with some experiences you've had with specific women or social circles, and you were projecting that onto all women in your post. When I'm with my female friends, we occasionally talk about stuff like that, but we usually talk about things like science, history, politics, food, or music, or we joke around.

            It also sounds like you really look down on some less practical stereotypically feminine interests, like makeup and clothes. It's totally fine not to be interested in those things, but men have frivolous interests, too. A lot of stereotypically masculine interests are impractical, like fast cars (not the engineering aspect, of course, but many discussions of cars I've witnessed in focussed largely on how badass looking/seeming they are), video games, beer, food, and women. It's fine to talk about those things, too, of course. Maybe you're more interested in those things, but it doesn't mean they're less shallow than things women talk about.

            I think some women do default to more stereotypical conversation topics around women we don't know very well sometimes, because it's seen as a given that all women will be interested in those things. It's an ice breaker. I've been guilty of this, and it's not really fair, because of course many women aren't particularly interested in them. My point is that you shouldn't judge people as shallow based on the fact that they often have conversations you're not interested in. If changing the subject doesn't help, hang out with different people.

            What I was really trying to say with my last post is that I worry that you might be alienating women by assuming they won't be interested in the things you're interested in. Like I mentioned before, most of the conversations I have are pretty intellectual. We might have been friends, if I hadn't just read this post insulting my entire gender.

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  • FocoUS

    "It's a one in a million shot to find a female that primarily has intelligent and productive conversations."

    One in a million? Wow, you really think you're special don't you? I don't think you should diss the women of the world just so you can hold the title one-of-the-guys as trophy. I also think what you said strengthens the division between genders and contributes to the masculinity crisis, shame on you.

    It's normal to have more male friends than female friends but, don't be sexist.

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    • Acerbic

      That bit sounded a bit narcissistic and sexist to me, as well. I was hoping the OP was just feeling very frustrated at the time she wrote it and didn't actually buy into those ridiculous stigmas. It'd be ironic for someone who claims to be so intelligent to hold such uneducated, narrow-minded views, but stranger things have happened.

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      • Yes, I was frustrated. I do give everyone a chance, I don't dismiss anyone before getting to know enough about them to make a proper assessment. I didn't mean to sound as if I avoid all women like the plague, just that I find more, much more, men that I love to spend time with.

        What it may boil down to is "risk". I find women just don't take enough risk. I see most men having such broad interests and will do what they want to do because they WANT to. Women, on the other hand, are so afraid to do anything!! From physical things all the way to fun things and anything in between. Then you have those women who only do things to say "look at me, a woman, I am going to try this to look tough" (and they usually fail at it, so that just makes things even worse). There seems to be very few 100% genuine women. They either are afraid to take risk or they take risk for the wrong reasons.

        I hope that perhaps cleared up at least some of it!!

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  • pooniefoonie

    Your attitude towards women is awful, considering you are just as shallow as the women you are describing.

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    • la_la_la_la

      Hiya,

      If not wanting to look like you don't care about yourself is shallow, then I must be shallow too. I'd rather be with people I get along with, & if they're mostly men, so be it.

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  • GingerWaterDemon

    Wow. I'm glad you're "more smarter" than 99% of the women out there, but even us dimwitted girls out here can very easily find that offensive. Perhaps the reason you don't get along with girls is your personal attitude about them. If you're constantly assuming that they're going to be beneath you, then yeah you're not going to get along.

    To answer your question, yes it's normal to get along with guys better than girls. Most of the girls I know have more guy friends than girls. What's not normal is your opinion of girls. Way to proliferate the stereotype.

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  • Yumazing

    I just love narcissism filled posts.

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    • You must be one of those girls I can't stand, due to your defensiveness. I've seen your profile pic, tons of make-up and hair doo's...nice. Seems like an obsession. What else do you have to offer? Serious question.

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      • Yumazing

        I was not trying to be defensive, just sarcastic. I understand where you are coming from, as I like spending time with my male friends more. The only issue I have with you and your post is you automatically assume I am full of drama, reality television madness, and insecurity. The beginning of your post says you like being and looking like a woman. So do I. You like having deeper or more thoughtful conversations. So do I. Fixing things (unrelated to matching clothing items) is also a shared interest. We have much in common, yet I am still beneath you in your mind.
        All I ask of you is to please tell me what kind of shithole do you live in? Because if all the women there are how you describe, I can understand you and your post.

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        • iEatZombies_

          I have new found respect for you.
          Glad somebody realizes looks, brains, and labor can and do go together on a semi-regular basis.
          There are so many beautiful women who don't deserve this stereotype following them around.

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  • Acerbic

    Also, it's worth mentioning that some women have a tendency to feel like they're competing with other women to be prettier, smarter, better- especially in the workplace. Men have the traditional alpha-male complex and I think many women may have the same thing.
    Perhaps this is why a majority of women prefer male bosses, as Reeves stated.

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  • Acerbic

    It is normal in the context that a fair number of women do prefer male company because they're generally more like-minded. As a female MENSA member, I'd fit into the same catagory, as well. I'll agree that it is irritating that it can be difficult to find other women with the same mindset. Difficult, but not so much so to cause me to stigmatize women as a whole. I think it's just as annoying when men would rather play video games all day as it is when women want to go shopping all day. It's also noteworthy that that role is often reversed; there are plenty of men who love shopping and women who love Mortal Kombat. -FINISH HIM!!-

    Yet honestly, I don't think it's so much that the majority of women are obsessed with clothing, TV shows and strictly trivial things; it's just that it is slightly more common in our society than not. The truth is that some are and some aren't, as with anything. The ratio of trivial-type women and women like yourself would mostly depend on your location. For example, in a town with a major college campus, the majority of women would likely be intellectuals- yet if you went to a mall, the majority would be the opposite.
    The good news is that there are beginning to be far more females abandoning the stigma that we all must care about which shade of lipstick is 'in' and know which Kardashian is which to be accepted.
    In closing, I completely agree that it's extremely annoying to be surrounded by dim-witted bimbos, but if you look in the right places, there are plenty of women who feel the same as you do.
    ACE

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Yeah; I'm the same way. To be honest, I really don't like other girls in general. I always found it a lot easier to befriend males. Females are typically too emotional and think of everything as some kind of beauty competion. They always want someone to feel sorry for them and play the annoying "victim" role when instead of taking up for their responibilities. They always cry about everything and gossip about each other. I can name an endless list of stuff!. Guys are typically layed back and know how to have fun without always getting into some sort of verbal confrontation over something stupid. I can tell you that I'v had far more male friends than female through out my history. I definatly agree with you here. But I'm more of a tom-boy, so that's where we're different. I'm heterosexual, but sometimes I wish I were a dude. Girls get on my nerves so much that I just don't even want to be one a lot of the time, but I'd never want to be in a relationship with a girl, so if I were a guy, I'd be a gay guy.

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  • ronn

    I can relate. I am a guy who does not mingle, fraternize or socialize with other guys. I have one male friend who I've known for a long time, a family man with a wife and kids. AND THAT'S IT!!! I have no "drinking buddies" or the like to hang around with and I keep it that way. Aside from being with my family, I have spent most of my time either with ladies (mostly my girlfriends--one at a time, of course!!!) or all by myself. Although I had girlfriends of various heights and weights, I prefer ladies who are short, fat and strong because I am a guy who is tall, skinny and weak!!! I like it (that means I get REALLY TURNED ON!!!) when such a short, fat, big strong lady out lifts me in weightlifting (especially in the clean and jerk!!!) or beats me at arm wrestling or takes me down and then pins me in wrestling (especially when I tower over her by more than a foot while she outweighs me by more than fifty pounds!!!). That really turns me on. People may think this is weird or strange but I don't think so and neither does the lady who is short, fat and strong and who is also REALLY TURNED ON!!!

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  • thinkingaboutit

    gassed. hahahaha so gassed. that's what happens when you hang out with men. it makes to think you are better than other woman , who may I add say a lot of the same shit you do.

    gassssseeeeeeedddd

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  • tehfoxyfire

    You just love to talk about yourself don't you. Check out how many times you've used the word "I.."

    You contradict yourself many times it's ridiculous id suggest you delete this post lest you embarrass yourself here...

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    • Wh0Ar3YoU

      I love myself everywhere I go,
      I love myself and the way I flo,
      I love the fact that I am sexy,
      I love how I can attract girls named Lexie,
      I love catching stares from chicks,
      Wouldn't you say I am slick?

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      xXWh0Ar3YoUXx

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      • tehfoxyfire

        Am I supposed to beat box a melody in da. Background while u rap this masterpiece

        let's go

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        • Wh0Ar3YoU

          Hakuna Matata

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          • tehfoxyfire

            *looks @ you weird*...

            I'm going to go paint my toenails now...Ummm. Yeah.

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            • Wh0Ar3YoU

              Hakuna Matata my friend

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  • la_la_la_la

    Hiya,

    I saw this & wasn't sure if I wrote it & forgot.
    If you look in the right places, you'll find some similar women to yourself. I seem to be one.

    I do talk about TV shows. I was cross when I missed some cop show where the suspect's fingers were broken!

    What you're talking about is a certain type of woman, who I wouldn't particularly like/get on with either. I've known women who self-harmed, women who didn't eat all day (men don't seem to do either as much)
    I thought the woman who self-harmed was similar to me because we had similar music tastes! The more extreme types, (like I've described) give me the creeps. Mind you I probably give them the creeps as well.

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  • Bonnabell

    Your probobly a tomboy. Yes this is normal alot if women are premodonnas.

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  • dirtybirdy

    I always felt like I got along better with guys. I like 'guy' stuff and dirt and all that good shite. Chicks are usually too, I don't know... girly? Not that theres anything wrong with that....to look at anyway Haha but I prefer to hang out with guys and do dude stuff.

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  • Reeves

    The main thing that I have always heard was that 9 of 10 women (if not 99.9 percent of women) would prefer to have a male boss and not a female boss. That's my two cents worth. I can only speak about what I know.

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  • Wendell

    Well I know someone like that. It's normal

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