I lied to my girlfriend about going to a prostitute

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My girlfriend asked me the other day if I had ever visited a prostitute and immediately I denied it and I'm ashamed to admit I was very convincing I know she believed me.. I feel guilty about it now, I don't want to lie to her but I'm just so scared and honestly kind of ashamed of that aspect of my past, I went to 3 hookers and never had any sti potential sex I have a foot fetish and so it was all just foot jobs, (this was all before I met her so it wasn't cheating or anything)

anyway I just feel bad about lying to her and I don't know if I should tell her the truth or will she see me differently and break up with me over it? I need advice please

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  • litelander8
    2 years ago

    Does she know about your fetish? She’d probably be more understanding about some footjobs.

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  • Mini69
    2 years ago

    You shouldn’t have lied but personally I think you should be honest with her. Relationships should be built on trust, tell her your sorry you lied but it was before you knew her and you feel embarrassed about it which is why you denied it before. If she is a decent person she will accept what you say and be pleased you owned up. If she goes off on one and dumps you then she probably wasn’t worth being with in the first place. If she can’t deal with something so minor then how long would it have been before she finds something worth actually breaking up over.

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  • hauntedbysandwiches
    2 years ago

    You shouldn't lie to her. Look as a woman myself yeah I can say it's a turn off to hear that a man I'm dating has slept with hookers but I wouldn't stop dating someone because of it.

    Hell the guy I'm interested in now had sex addiction in the past and slept with over 100 hookers no stds thankfully but he kept telling me he had this secret to tell me that he felt guilty about but wouldn't tell me for months. I begged him to finally tell me and he did, he thought I'd never talk to him again but I stayed. He hadn't gone in a while and apologized to me, we talked things through and we're good now. Yeah once in a while thinking about it bothers me but that's not him anymore and he's the most loyal guy I've ever known. If you want to know if you're right for someone you should just tell them and if they run they weren't meant for you

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  • livegeek
    2 years ago

    Who said this wasn't normal. Like WTF? Just tell her. If she doesn't have the time of day to respect your honesty, she's not worth it. Like it was probably an 'on the spot' question and left you wondering how to respond. Next time Just tell the truth

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  • ChrissySnow
    2 years ago

    Don't listen to these idiots. NEVER TELL, NEVER ADMIT to anything! Unless you are thinking of marrying her she has no business having that kind of blackmail to hold over you

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    You should lie, but now that it’s done don’t do it again. You need to share your foot fetish. It may open a whole new sexual world for both of you.

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    • DADNSCAL
      2 years ago

      I meant you shouldn’t lie.

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  • [Old Memory]
    2 years ago

    its ok.

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