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I have a really bad habit of laughing at people when they cry, or are in any type of pain. I find it funny.
Is this normal?
Or am i just a terrible person?
I don't know about crying. It's fucking hilarious when people are pissed off and their face goes red and some sort of a vein pops out on their forehead. HA I think I laugh because I imagine them having a heart attack or something. when I was young, my mom would yell and yell at me and I laughed because she was so mad and she became so furious.
On the other hand, I've been furious at my brother and had him laughing at me and I thought I was going to have a stroke I was so pissed!
I do the same thing. I just can't help it. I deliver bad news, I smile. It's weird
That's terrible and immature. Picture someone doing it to you when bad things happen to you.You 'll see what you are doing to others.
same here i hate it i just carnt seem to stop myself! Once my BfFl was crying cos her mum ran over her cat. i burst out laughing and she got kinda angry and hasnt talked to my in AGES!
Sometimes i laugh cause im unsure of what to say. Sometimes it's funny cause of what they are crying about..
Don't you think it's better to just, make that person feel better instead of laughing at them?
Like what BushMonkey said, it's sometimes just a nervous habit. I used to do it a lot, too. Not because I thought their pain was funny (I was always really sympathetic), but just because I wasn't sure what to do about it or anything. I don't laugh much anymore, but I still do smile a lot.
Are you amused by their pain? Or do you just laugh because you can't help it? I know that laughing can be a way to show nervousness or insecurity. You could just be laughing because you're uncomfortable. If that's the case, you're not terrible. Just try and notice when you're doing it because it does seem mean.