I know what i want but don't want it?

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Is it normal that I don't I want to be in an intimate with relationship with anyone?

I'm not afraid of intimacy/sex/love. I've had boyfriends; I just expected I would eventually fall for them. At 24 I'm getting tired of meeting guys and then finding out we're not compatible.

Is it normal to like the idea of love and want to be in love with someone, but at the same time actively avoid intimacy?

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Based on 38 votes (27 yes)
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  • jsyk
    14 years ago

    you sound like me, i kept finding guys who were assholes or that just didnt have everything i want and we didnt work, its frusterating puting in all that time just to have it go south, i actually gave up on dating for three years until one day someone amazing came along and then i was ready again. just wait until someone comes along that has everything you want and you wont have to worry about itr anymore

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  • user8657
    12 years ago

    If you're actively avoiding intimacy/love, it might just be the wrong guy.

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  • chocolate_123
    14 years ago

    You just haven't found what you want. Try to take a brake from dating and take time to think about exactly why you are avoiding it. And take it from there...

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