I know i need to network but i can't get myself to do it
I graduated from a top undergrad school and got a masters in my field from a top school as well. However, I've been working for 4 years and it feels my career has stagnated.
I get it.. it's WHO, not WHAT you know that's gonna get you a better job. However, I haven't been keeping touch with many people from grad school and none of my close friends work in my industry.
I tried reaching out to some random people who work at the companies I want to work for on LinkedIn and it's been quite exhausting to say the least.. meeting people for coffee after a long day at work or rushing through the lunch break to meet new people. After a while, it feels like you're basically begging others to give you a better job even if you don't say it directly.