I kiss another man

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I went out saturday night , got exremley drunk. And lost my mates.
Started talking to a man and hung out with him then for the night and next thing I know we where making out.
I have a wonderful boyfriend of 3 years and don't know why I ever did it. I feel so guilty and ashamed. Do I tell him and risk the chance of loosing everything. Or do I put it down as I was stupid and drunk. I would never have wanted to hurt him, but I have.and if I loose him I'm so scared of what will happen I don't think I could live with out him. Because a stupid night of maddness and mistake. Pleas help its killing me inside to think I done something like this!

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    Tell him. Apart from anything else, he has a right to know.

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  • Flaze
    11 years ago

    If you don't tell him now, he'll find out later and you'll regret it. at least if you tell him now, maybe you can work it out.

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  • InsertUsername
    11 years ago

    Honesty is what I treasure most in a relationship. If you put it to him clearly, it will relieve you of feeling like you do and may show him you want to be honest. In any case, I hope it goes well! Good luck to you.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      11 years ago

      Agreed! Or else you'll always have an elephant in the room.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    You have only kissed the guy and you were drunk! It's not a big deal. It's better if you don't tell your bf anything about this. Things you don't know can't hurt. Just make sure you don't repeat the error.

    Do you think that your relationship will become better if you tell him the incident? Do you think that he will appreciate your honesty and congratulate you for it? Seriously return on earth!

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    • Terence_the_viking
      11 years ago

      Nothing is a big deal with you is it

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    This is exactly why i don't drink it makes you do stupid things

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  • terralee20
    11 years ago

    Just wanted to say thank you All for your inputt, I've been honest and it was hard but he does deserve better than me to lie or betray him. He's a lovely man and always put other people first. All I know is it will not happen again unless I want the releationship to end. I just hope we work around the elephant that is in the room. And get pass this we are both grown adults. X

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