I kinda had sex with my friend

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It all started one night about 2 months ago when my friend (who is a guy) and I (I'm a girl) got really drunk, we were having a good time, everything was great and then I told him I had to go and he kissed me. It was weird but nice so I kissed him back. After that everything was as usual, we went out to eat, do our stuff, nothing sexual happened after that. Then he got a girlfriend, I didn't really care, I was actually happy for him, he introduced me to her, she's really nice and pretty, although she doesn't like to drink or get high or any other stuff he and I always do. Anyways, about two weeks ago he kissed me again, I didn't know how to react but honestly I didn't atop him either. We had sex for a week, I was like his "lover" but last Thursday I was thinking about it and I really don't like the fact that I am the one giving him pleasure and the one he has fun with but she's the one who gets the flowers and the attention. I talked to him, told him I wouldn't do this anymore but didn't exactly told him the way I really feel about him. The thing is we know each other so well, sexually and emotionally, we have so much fun together but still he's with her because "she's sweet".
What should I do? Should I tell him or just leave things the way they are?

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Tell him if you're so inclined, but don't sleep with again while he's with this other chick. You wouldn't want someone to cheat on you so don't enable cheating on someone else.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I guess you're right, I should probably tell him but I'm pretty sure that'll make it even more awkward

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        It's also okay to just pray and meditate, but whatever you do don't be the other woman. You're better than that.
        :-)

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  • ☆I'm☆A☆Star☆
    8 years ago

    All of you should give me flowers and attention because ☆I'm☆A☆Star☆.

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    • bucho's_butt
      8 years ago

      Not you again. Go away. You'r like the counterpart to the cancer kid ass jabber.

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      • ☆I'm☆A☆Star☆
        8 years ago

        Just remember this, Boochie Butt. You may like your butt, but my ass is perfect because ☆I'm☆A☆Star☆.

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        • bucho's_butt
          8 years ago

          You must be some coked out Japanese teenie bopper or something. You're not normal.

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          • LittleGirlFerociouslySodomized
            8 years ago

            It's like parking meters fairy feeding the meter quarters preventing a fine

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  • Thedollcollector8==D
    8 years ago

    You have no room to complain. You deserve what's coming to you.

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  • Zeus_
    8 years ago

    The only reason a male buddies up to a female is because:

    1. He is old and has low testosterone.
    2. He is gay.
    3. Some single mother told him; be friends with the female first. [that is so funny!!]

    Before he found this "Girlfriend" [not really a girlfriend, because they just met], basically a placeholder who agreed to have sex with him, he was spending time with you. He's always wanted to have sex with you, there is no other reason to hang with you, since he is clearly not gay.

    If a woman can get a mans attention without giving him sex, she won't give him sex. Like you did. You were getting attention.

    But then he found that girl, who will do him when he wants it, and that takes the attention away from you, and that bothers you she would use her vagina to steal away the attention you were getting for free [no sex].

    What should you do, you ask..... Well first, go tell him you will continue to have sex with him when he wants, because telling him you won't do this anymore, is no big deal since he has a chick who will. .....Or, tell him to go away. Then the next straight guy who comes around you, don't pretend you're seven years old playing friends with him. He is an adult, you're adult, he is coming around you because you have a vagina, he wants to have sex with you, he is offering you dick.

    By the way, this is why a man should never date just one woman at time. Women use sex as leverage to get her agenda met.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Okay so let's say I continue to,have sex with him... Then what? I really like him and I'm not sure if he likes me better than his girlfriend, i mean, it would really hurt if he doesn't break up with her even though he's having sex with me.

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      • Zeus_
        8 years ago

        Alright, you continue to have sex with him. That means you like having sex with him. Right?

        Or are you having sex with him to get him to leave the other girl for you? Why would he do that? Why do you want that? Why would you really hurt if he continues to date both of you?

        People can have sex without expecting to be their one-and-only.

        You're single, he is single [not married]. So either of you can date [have sex with] whoever you want.

        Why do you need him to break up with the girl? Don't you see you're alright? Consider yourself a "Friend with Benefits". You can date other guys, too.

        What's your age, his age?

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    If you are enjoying the sex and there is no emotional attraction what is the problem here?

    As long as you know that he is a cheating bastard and will do so in a wink with you as well carry on fucking him, just do not allow yourself to get emotionally attached!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I do enjoy the sex, the thing is that I already have feelings for him which I know is stupid because he's scumbag but I can't help it, like I said is just that we know each other so well and I really enjoy being with him

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      • sexysonofsam
        8 years ago

        Well now you find yourself in a bit of a conundrum here, the question that you need to ask yourself is quite simple, "Does he really fuck that well?", do I want to knowingly enter into a long term relationship with a fuzzball who has already proven to me that he has no conscience and is able to do the same to you as he did with his present "Girlfriend"...so either let the good times roll, fuck him and forget him, or get yourself into a relationship with a bastard who will fuck you over with your best friend>>>>what to do, what to do?

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