I keep blowing him off?

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I've posted another story about how i like my boyfriend, but at the same time, i don't want to be with him at all. Well, i am absolutly terrified i will lose him as a friend if i break up with him, and it's really screwed up to break up with him over text. So, i constently blow him off. I try not to talk to him, and i try to sneak by him without him seeing me. I avoid kissing him and looking him in the eye. I feel like a terrible person, but i don't want to hurt him. I think it would be better if he broke up with me and get it over with. And actually, most of the time, i don't even mean to blow him off. I hardly notice that he's around me until he trys to talk to me.
Is this normal?
And am i a horrible person for doing this?
And can you give me ways to get him to break up with me pleaseee?

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  • LunaLaFortuna
    12 years ago

    The more you ignore the guy - the more he will love you. So he's never gonna break up with you now.

    If you really want to get rid of him, stalk him, call him every minute of the day asking what he's thinking about, send him a ton of cutsie 'I miss you, huney-buney' texts and stuff, act all insecure and whiny around him, constantly complain about everything, swear, bitch about other women and stop brushing your teeth for a week while nervously looking in the mirror and pointing out every bit of fat and cellulite you can spot and cry out in disgust at yourself. Squeeze zits (real or imaginary) on your face, burp, fart and get drunk and vomit on his shoes.

    If that won't work, I don't know what.

    Maybe you could try telling him that you think his mother is fat and stupid? that should do it for sure

    good luck!

    (it was a joke, by the way, in case anyone is offended)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      That is actually really helpful(:

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    Why go stupid lengths to make him leave you? Why not act mature and you beak up with him? It's really not that hard.
    Am I the only one who misread 'blow him off' and thought this sounded even more weird?

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    You want to be friends, but are blowing him off? That isn't going to work.
    You have to explain this to him. It'll be better in the long run.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      No, like i find it awkward to be more than friends with him. If we weren't together, then i would be able to talk to him and not feel awkward.

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  • bigfatdick4
    7 years ago

    You should rather give him a good blow job to strengthen your relationship, he will feel better and so will you!

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  • anna101
    9 years ago

    Why did you get with him in the first place then . -.-

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  • CuriousTJ
    10 years ago

    I'm in the same boat as you right now

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    Yeah I went through this too! It was so annoying but finally I just did it! I broke up with him and it was for the best!

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    I wish he did, but it does.t look like he gets that i don't want to be with him. He still acts like we're closer then ever, when everyone else can tell we're not....

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