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I'm failing college, I'm gonna get fired from my job soon, I hate my mom, my nan is dying, my dad needs an operation I have no money, the girl I love is in love with someone
Everyone feels like giving up sometimes.
I think you should take a step back and ask yourself:
Why am I failing college?
Why am I going to get fired from my job?
Why do I hate my mom?
Those are things you can control.
If you know why those problems exist, you can think of positive ways to make things better.
Watching someone you love die is probably the hardest thing to deal with in life, but the most you can do is just be there for your nan. Cherish the time you have left to spend with her.
There must be some way to get money so your Dad can have the operation he needs. If you can't get the money yourself, maybe close family or friends would donate. People have donation funds for operations all the time. Depending on what your dad needs done, he may even be able to get a foundation to help him.
As for unrequited love, if she doesn't love you like you love her, she isn't worth the trouble. Let her be happy, and move on so you can be happy, too. If it's meant to be, it will be.
Well things have turned around
Since i posted this:
My nan has passed away, which was inevitable, i was prepared.
I've passed an exam
I've actually got a pay rise, god knows how that's happened
Relationship with mom has slightly improved.
My dad's operation failed, but he has another one scheduled soon and everything should be fine.
I have a first date soon
The girl i love(d) got her heart broken by some jerk she dated, which i expected.
I haven't been this happy in so long, i can't thank you guys enough
quit college
quit your job
fuck those bitches off
go visit your Nan
sorry about your Dad but life is just shit some times
Your failing college and losing your job because it's not what you really want to do in life decide what you want to do and do everything you can possible to make it happen.
If that doesn't work...drink.
It's just figurative language mate you used it so did I. Don't be so literal
There is NOTHING figurative about "dream like you'll live forever, live like you'll die tomorrow."
It is 100% literal and are words every human should strive to live by if they would like a good life.
Words of hope for this poster and others like him who have lost their way.
You can't give up! Hang in there and count your blessings. Think of all the good things in your life! That's the best advice I've got, kiddo. Hope you feel better soon ;)
Hey man. I'm really sorry I can't give you any advice, since I don't know what to do myself. But I'm in a very similar situation also. Obviously everybody deals with things differently, so I can't draw parallels between us, but I can say I'm going though a very similar amount of shit too. But please. Don't give up. I know I want to, but no one else should have to consider anything like that. I know it's hypocritical, applying that to someone else and not myself, but the thing is I'm sure people care about you, and hell, I don't even know you but I feel as if I understand you. Please stay strong. You can make it. Please.
Things get worse before they can get better. Work harder than youve ever worked dont give up.
don't give up things do get better theirs probably your perfect job around the corner and the ideal girl for is definitely out their. the best thing for nan is to spend as much time as you can with her and just talk to your mom and work things out you never know.