I just don't know

So I had a very special friendship with one of my bosses. I'm a dancer, she is a manager and we work in different clubs that share the same owners. I developed a big crush on her, but I don't know if she ever felt the same. She'd pull me onto her lap, we'd have little hugs and kisses, and after a few wines she said she didn't want to be with women after her last heartache. I then said "except for me, right? I'm your little exception." Then she pulled me close and said "Yes, except for you." She kept buying me drinks, holding my hand and at one point even looked like she was going to kiss me. I had a few hints that suggested she liked me too, but also a few that suggested that she didn't. Like, her talking about boys or not making a move specific enough. I talked to some other dancers about our 'little moments' and how I liked her, then they told the boss I went around saying I was actually in a relationship with her! I got suspended, the boss I like almost got fired and won't speak to me. Her flat-mate told me she's angry, saying she doesn't like me. But.. Do you think before this mess, she did? :(

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  • Faceless

    Send her a bouquet of dildos and everything will be hunky dory in the morning.

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    • janeyjane

      Best advice ever! Hahahahaha

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  • Always be careful about who you open up to. Only a few people actually care and the rest just want something to gossip about.

    She may have been interested in you. She didn't pursue it, though, so it probably wasn't enough interest for her to consider a relationship with you.

    You'll never know for sure because you blew it. It's not likely she's ever going to want to be with you now because you almost ruined her career.

    The best thing to do is leave her alone: don't try to talk to her and definitely don't talk about her to anyone from the clubs. You might feel a need to apologize to her, but don't. You might be lucky if she's nice to you again months down the road, after you've given her some space to prove she didn't have anything going on with you to everyone you work with.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Don't shit where you eat.

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    • peterr

      You have such a way with words.

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  • peterr

    Eat out your boss or suck his cock if he is a man. Simple and this works in any scenario one can imagine.

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  • Dancer , Puts , Foot , In , It , cool , story , tho

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  • Short4Words

    Maybe but hesitant. It could be hard to say, only you were there.

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  • janeyjane

    Any tips on how to fix this mess would be appreciated :-(

    - Jane x

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