I just do not find anyone attractive.

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Hi. I am a 20 year old girl and a virgin, not without options, if I wanted to I have people who like me I could sleep with. But I just do not want any kind of sex, for no other reason than I just do not want to. I assumed that it was because I did not fancy anyone I go to university with or know socially.
I signed up for tindr thinking I would find someone, then I do find people attractive but I just do not fancy anyone and have no desire to get physical at all.
I do find celebrities attractive, I mainly think about Jared Leto upon masturbating which I do but generally do in bed before I go to sleep because it feels nice and I don't sleep that well and it helps. However, I feel like I would not want to get physical with him either no matter how nice his eyes are or muscly his arms are, I even tried going out with girls who I also find attractive yet I still do not actually want to go to bed with them either. Nothing bad has ever happened to me that made me this way, I would categorise myself as bisexual but it seems I like no one, I can appreciate beauty and sexual stimuli but I just cannot think of anything worse than touching each other it, just, feels wrong to me.
Is this normal, will I meet someone and think 'dear god I want him inside me' or will I forever think 'they've got a nice face but I'd rather finish the Girl on the Train'?

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Comments ( 8 )
  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Maybe somewhere inside yourself you realize that love is about more than a pretty face and bumpin uglies? Don't judge yourself too harshly or tolerate anyone who judges you or tries to pressure you. Be yourself, and do yo thang. You'll probably be more successful than those of us who are obsessed with getting a piece of ass. Try not to compare yourself to others, whatever you do don't do things you're not down with just to fit in with your peers. In today's world you truly are a unique and special snowflake.

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    • The_Loitering_Creep
      7 years ago

      That was a nice thing to say to her, Rosie. But, I also get the impression she isn't comfortable in her own skin. A search on Youtube.com for "be comfortable in your own skin" might help. Nothing wrong with finishing "Girl on the Train", tho.

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  • Keepsake
    7 years ago

    Maybe if you fall in love with someone you won't mind having sex. Otherwise, don't overthink it too much. Take things at your own pace, you'll have sex once you're ready and comfortable.

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  • Murun
    7 years ago

    You will. You just haven't met them yet. Some people have low standards, yours are high. It's no bad thing!

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  • Ezroni
    7 years ago

    Didn't read a single word, OP, but from your title I gather its no one that finds you attractive, not the other way around

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  • LaCeliaQuevos
    7 years ago

    Get high then go to a bar.

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  • jimmythecunt
    7 years ago

    You are overthinking the whole matter! Relax, lay back and have somebody ugly fuck you!

    Thereafter you can simply tell them to leave...no strings attached!

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    • Helloworld101
      7 years ago

      i agree with him find someone let them fuck you and see whats up

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