I jump from guy to guy

I admit that I do jump from guy to guy. I try to get someone and once I do we date for a certain about of time and then right when I end it I already have the next guy lined up. I'm not just gettin bored I just don't want to waste my time on the wrong guy. But recently I've found a wonderful guy who I truly like more then I've liked anyone and I don't wanna get bored with him and just move on. Is this slutty/normal?

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37% Normal
Based on 54 votes (20 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • The-Lewis-317

    It's normal, I don't think it's right but it's normal human behaviour and men do it too so I can't judge you, I wish you the best of luck with your "new boyfriend" (sorry I know that sounds mean)

    If you want my advise I say that if you truly "like" him, if you ever "get bored" as you put it, don't "already have the next guy lined up" because it will give you time to think, you may still have feelings for him and it may be too late and if you keep "jumping from guy to guy" people may begin to think you are a slut (Not very fun)

    But I'm just a stranger on the Internet, at the end of the day you are the one that chooses to live your life, again I wish you luck.

    (Also English is not my first language so forgive any mistakes I may of done on that lengthily post)

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  • Faceless

    I have a fiend who jumps from girl to girl. Now he has gonorrhea. So instead of calling him by his name I go, hey *clap, clap* hows the burning piss going? True story.

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  • sounds like your a pure whore
    or a cat in heat

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  • kelili

    If you really like him then all you do together even if it's the most trivial thing will be a wonderful moment. Don't tell him that you used to jump from guy to guy. Boys are sensitive on that subject.

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  • Andrew256

    You sound like a real cunt.

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    • shade_ilmaendu

      What, she's a cunt for dating around trying to figure out what she likes? Grow up.

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  • fissionmailed

    Stop being a boy hopper or just stop dating. But you can't fix stupid.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    Don't accumulate bad karma for yourself else you'll be hating life in the long run

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  • regisphilbin

    it happens

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  • Japande

    Its normal and right. its normal to move quickly through boys, its also normal for you to not want to hurt this new boy. im hoping you are young, no one can hold anything against you if you are. we do these things its alright. as long you are not doing this with malicious content, who can blame you for how you feel?

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  • ccjigsaw

    Normal? Yes. Right? No.

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  • MRmr

    Slut

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  • OswaldCobblepot

    You shouldn't do that without proper safety equipment; you could really hurt yourself.

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  • dom180

    So long as you make sure they know what they're dealing with when they date you so you don't hurt them, go ahead. Dating is about finding out more about the person you might be going into a "real relationship" with; it isn't an obligation to do anything more than that. Just don't lead them on if you know it probably won't last.

    I'll add the caveat that you can't learn enough about someone to really know for sure whether or not they're the right person in just a couple of dates. Also, the way you talk about having the next one always lined up makes me think you might be taking these guys for granted, and maybe you are not seeing the good things about them because you know you will always have more options. Again, this is just me guessing. I don't know you so I can't pass judgement :P

    If you truly like this guy as a potential real, long-term boyfriend then you won't move on when you get bored with him; it's that simple. Newsflash: relationships aren't all excitement. If you get bored without the never-ending honeymoon period then long-term relationships just aren't for you.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Of course it's normal, you're probably still quite young and have no idea what you're looking for in a relationship. All these people judging you are basing their opinions on some idiotic, arcane notion that girls must be "respectful" and "faithful" and "pure" and it's all a load of bollucks.

    You are doing nothing wrong by trying to figure yourself out or leaving guys once you find out they're no good for you. Better than staying with someone who makes you miserable for years and years and ending up in a divorce.

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  • CheyChey

    you stupid hoe..

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