I it normal that people are nice to you when you are not?

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I feel like when I am smiling and extremely polite to someone (whether it be at work, school, or at a business) they are extremely rude or look down on me. However, when I am stern and without a smile, people would act nice towards me. I've noticed this happening, and when I see that they are being nice, I act nice back. Then they turn into total douche nozzles. Is this normal? Has it happened to anyone else?

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Based on 34 votes (20 yes)
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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    11 years ago

    Yes, I noticed that too. I think it's because they feel sorry or scared when you're rude, so they try to lighten up the mood. But if you're nice, they feel comfortable and can be thenselves.
    So I guess only jerks akt that way. A truly nice person will be friendly when you're friendly.

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    • loyally
      11 years ago

      I thought about that. You've confirmed it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    yes and i don't know why either

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Maybe it's your face.

    Maybe your happy face is ugly and your angry face is funny.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    i find the opposite, if i am grumpy so are they, if i am happy open and smiling so are they , mostly

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