I have zero confidence -

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I'm 18 and I just started college. Anyway, I always had a lot of problems with self confidence since I have always seen myself as an ugly girl, and was always jealous as how my friends were prettier and could get along much better with guys. I'm a very friendly girl and every person I meet says I'm the funniest person they've ever met, which must be sincere, since i'm always the one making everyone laugh. I think this is the way i feel more accepted since i feel so ugly. Anyway, it really bothers me because in my whole life a guy never liked me - or even a girl - and in clubs i'm kind of the one always dancing while my friend are making out. Boys always talked to me as the funny one and is very annoying how i was labelled as that and not an "approachable" or pretty girl.
I thought that meeting new people would change stuff.
And it really is a pain in the ass, cause everywhere I go, everyone I talk, i'm always thinking what must be their impression of me, that i'm probably kind of weird, this stuff. Sometimes i just won't go out with my friends because I feel like i will be seen as the ugly one.
I hate feeling like this. And at age of 18!! PLS HELP

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Channel this angst into action, then. Nothing will change if you don't change. Lose weight, wear makeup, fix your posture. Destroy the insecurities. The simple act of seeing yourself improve will do more for your self-esteem than nice words ever will.

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    • Ms.Dempsy
      7 years ago

      I heartly agree with you.

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      • Chilllbanana
        7 years ago

        Join the illumanati baby :3

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  • HonestlyMe914
    7 years ago

    dont hink negative it can hardly affect you emotionally, mentally and physically.

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  • HonestlyMe914
    7 years ago

    when i was young people always says im pretty and etc. but when im getting older and older i feel like uglier and uglier and my confidence gets lower and lower. *sighs*

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    • dude_Jones
      7 years ago

      Wear purple.

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  • dude_Jones
    7 years ago

    The problem is easy, as I say this to you. Your empty headed friends are filled with mental rife. You are the one with social artistry which is the vitamin for life.

    The next time you go to a party. Talk to guys. Figure them out. Enjoy them. Make them see you adapt your wit to fit their perceptions. It is not she who makes out. It is not she who gets all the attention. And, it is not she who is the prettiest. It is she who is the artist of people, of ideas, of smiles, and wit. Know about sports, graduate studies, provocative ideas for any occasion. You are a sleeping VanGogh. Shake off your slumber. Swirls, curls, and textures in conversation will emerge from your clever hand. Enchantment will be your creation.

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  • ʇɐq_ɐ_ɯı_ןoן
    7 years ago

    noʎ uɐɥʇ ɹǝnoʎ sı oɥʍ ǝʌılɐ ǝuo-ou sı ǝɹǝɥʇ
    ǝnɹʇ uɐɥʇ ɹǝnɹʇ sı sıɥʇ
    noʎ ǝɹɐ noʎ ʎɐpoʇ

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  • NathanScot
    7 years ago

    Me too. Cher'

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    The only advice i can give you which worked for me is. Stop giving a shit about what other people think, Look like, act like etc because you are not them and they are not you.

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