I have strong feelings for my best friend. iin?

I have known my friend Renata for almost 2 years.And I just found out that I'm in love with her.Like REALLY in love with her!I had a strong feelings for this boy in my other neighborhood, and I haven't felt as strong as a feeling as I did with him until I met Renata.I recently found out I was bisexual and I really want to tell Renata and I don't know how!I really need some help!

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  • maslover04

    This happened to me last year. If she is bisexual, i say go for it.but if she isn't, take it slow.wait at least a month and if you still feel the same, then try telling her. But don't say anything like oh I'm in love with you. This will jus scare her away. Say something like i need to talk to you. you mean a lot to me and you know your my best friend. I just want you to know that id do anything for you. But i think i like you as more than a friend. You always make me happy when I'm having a bad day and it really bothers me that ihaven't been able to tell you. if you don't feel the same, i understand. And i hope this doesn't mess up anything between us. I jus had to get that off my chest. If she doesn't feel the same, leave it alone.don't push it because by pushing it, you will slowly push her away. Hoe i helped! Good luck :)

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    • salem32600

      This is exaxtly how I would have responded.

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      • maslover04

        Aha great minds think alike c;

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  • RoseIsabella

    Take your time and understand your friendship could implode before you get impulsive and declare your love for her.

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  • GenerationOfTheHopeless

    Simple stop being BiSexual

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I had a friend name Renata i used to call her retina but she couldn't see the funny side of it.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Hahaha... But it's right in front of her eyes, all she has to do is look.

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  • confusion123

    I felt this same way with my best friend. I held the feeling in for about a year before I finally told her my feelings and she was really cool about it but said she didn't feel the same way. And I honestly wasn't crushed about it. She said I was her best friend and like a sister to her and she didn't want to lose that and I don't want to either. It depends on how old you girls are and how you think she would deal with the situation, but I would say yea you should tell her. The way I did it was I said that I had confused feelings and that when I'm close to someone and talk to them everyday I get these feelings for them. I also told her I love her personality and left it at that really to see what she would say to that. I dont know if this helps but I hope she feels the same way and if not then it'll be ok and you guys should still be great friends.

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