I have strong feelings for my best friend. (male)

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So I'm 18 and my best friend is the same age. We're both guys and we've been best friends for years. We're the type of best friends that can be with eachother every minute of every day and never get annoyed with eachother. We're physical and always touching eachother in a joking way. And we're not afraid to say what we feel. We say I Iove you all the time and we just love being around eachother. We sleep in the same bed when we stay with eachother and we'll be "cuddling" in a way but that just sounds like a girly word. We talk about girls all the time and we've been with girls all through highschool but we just have real feelings for eachother. We're always there for eachother, we've faught for eachother. We are dudes Lol I just don't feel like other friends express how much they care about eachother as much as we do. Is this NORMAL?!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Expressing feelings towards your best friend(s) is a good thing, keep it up :)

    I'm just wondering what you mean with
    "we just have real feelings for each other"

    Do you mean real best friend feelings or something more?

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  • warrior92
    9 years ago

    Not sure about the sleeping in the same bed and cuddling part, but all the rest, I think its normal cuz I can relate to you too... Just screw what other people think. Girls are allowed to express their feelings towards their girl friends all the time. I don't see what makes it wrong for guys to do it as well... This type of friendship is rare so keep it up!

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    Well if he is gay, then go for it. Do actually make sure he is into you in that way first though. Because if he isn't, and you make an advance then it could end up going very badly.

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  • InvadingPotatoLeader
    12 years ago

    Rape him.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    I'm just saying we both actually love eachother. It's awesome. This kid makes me so happy. But I just feel like I don't hear/see any other kids who have friends like this.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    This sounds completely normal to me...

    for being a flaming homosexual.

    Sleep in the same bed and cuddling???

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