I have small penis

i have a small penis 4 1/2 " erected. i am always embarrassed about it. my friends laugh at it. i avoided sex, and am a virgin at 22. though i think i am average looking, and have no trouble socially. but my esteem on my sexual ability is killing me.

is it normal?

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Based on 203 votes (149 yes)
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  • buriedalive

    Well, the average is only about six so you aren't THAT far behind. Anyway, if you're good at other sexual stuff (eg oral), and are willing to try stuff to satisfy a girl length doesn't really matter. Don't obsess about it. A lot of women don't really care about size anyway. You'll be grand, just work on your confidence :)
    Also, if it helps, a lot of your friends are probably lying about their size.

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  • ReaperAJ

    http://health.indiatimes.com/articleshow/msid-373713,prtpage-1.cms

    Really, stop worrying about it. I've had big one's and they hurt me like hell. I prefer something more comfortable - so in that respect, size might matter, but as far as you being too small... I doubt it. Yes, you get greedy women out there who like it big, but I don't think they speak for the majority. Most of us aren't all that hung up on intercourse, as it never really lasts that long anyway - what matters most is the foreplay and your technique. So stop stressing over this, you're just fine and if some bitch puts you down or laughs at your size, tell her it's not your problem if her pussy is so big she needs a street pole to satisfy it and walk right out that door, never think of it again. As for your friends, yeah, they're most probably lying about their own. If not, so what? They may turn out to be useless lovers as they will rely so much on their size that they won't learn the fundamentals of good sex. That is the experience I've had countless times. Not saying all well endowed men are useless lovers, just that the one's I've known relied too much on their size and stood behind the door when the lessons were handed out. Relax and accept yourself for what you are, you cannot change it, so love the skin you're in and make the most of learning all you can, that's really all that matters, not the size of your dick.

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  • yellow

    A girl who cares about you won't mind.

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  • Sheisdelirium

    If you have an awesome personality, I'd do you.

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    • jucedaguy

      How you doin?

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  • DJBleach

    Well, the national average for male penis size is 5 1/2 to 6 1/2 inches.
    But it's true that size doesn't matter. As long as you know how to use it.

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  • sondie

    there's a saying, it's not the size of the bullet, it's the effect. Well, from my experience, the guys with small cocks usually more than compensate by being fantastic pussy eaters.......been there more than one times

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  • cathy22

    OMGoodness, there's more to a relationship than body parts.

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  • MrNormalGuy

    just be cool, and be confident.
    muscles are more important than ur penis size
    if its so important than why are there lesbians?!

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  • NymphetsInLove

    I would be afraid of anything bigger. Many girls would think that's a really good size.

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  • I have 6 1/5 penis so i cant comment about your tiny penis

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  • Murasaki

    I too have a less than average penis. But remember this - it's not the size it's how you use it. Unless it's two inches, then you're all good to go.

    If you're still worried, then try finding out ways to make girls cum without using your penis. Every male should know these techniques any way, but if you can make them cum happily every time with your mouth or hands, then penis size wont matter and you're lovers will actually enjoy being with you more.

    Try stimulating the clitoris and learning about the G-spot. Learn how to give oral and what effect playing with the labia has. But above all, find out what your partner likes and where her most sensitive areas are for arousal.

    You have to understand that men like what they see and women like what they hear, so if you can be nice to her all day, work on some sexy games for foreplay, then she'll be humming like a well-oiled engine and the actual sex part will be relatively painless, even if you don't think yourself adequate.

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  • ucipher8

    shorter women might find your penis size to be like the last bowl of porridge, just right

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  • moomus

    ^^^^^ then Shes a pretty shallow
    Person to judge you on the size of your tool....

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  • lil'boner

    same size as mine. women want what they want so its less heartbreak to just masturbate every night like i do and forget about women.

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  • moomus

    Trust me it's not the size of the nail it's the hammer behind it, and I speak from experience!

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  • BoredGuy

    just make her cum, with your hands or tongue first and you will be fine

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  • goFUCKyourself

    technobananas a fag

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  • well hey someday you'll find that one girl that will love you for who you are, not for what ur packin, so dont worry, the day will come soon

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  • 8945ngri

    mine is little and she shaves my genital area. i really like to watch her now with guys we meet. i go last

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  • netsriktew

    You should have sex with another virgin who is inexperienced or who hasn't seen more than a couple penises, that way she won't really expect to be of any particular size. Or, you could make sure that your partner loves you before you have sex, then it won't matter to her at all because she'll love you just the way you are.

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    • JohnnyWishbone

      Netsriktew...

      That might backfire. It's not unknown for inexperienced folks, even girls, to turn to porn for advice, and we all know how THAT goes...

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  • russellnb

    Yuo have a 4 1/2 inch penis and a woman has a 3 inch deep vagina. Seems to be more than adaquate. If a woman laughs at your 4 1/2 inches you know she is not the one you want.

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    • webs666

      russellnb..

      A 3 inch deep vagina? Mate, stop fucking kids...

      Seriously, I know what this guy meant to say. The first 1/3rd of a girls vagina is the most sensitive and like other people have said 4 1/2 inches can do the job so I just wouldn't worry.

      Or go back to russellnb's idea, fuck a child! they're easy to pull, won't know any different and they'll make your dick look bigger!

      I hope this site has a sense of humour...

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