I have sadistic thoughts

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When i think of a relationship i think'i wish he hit her' or 'i wish they break up and her violates her but she still loves him' and stuff like that. Its like, i want to be hurt also in a relationship and abused and stuff but also to be loved? I find it really strange because i come from a religious background and i am religious...why wont these thoughts leave me?
P.s: whenever theres abuse there also has to be double the love...no love= no sadistic feelings. Is it normal to think this way?

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Based on 58 votes (25 yes)
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  • imtheman23
    13 years ago

    U r like me

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  • 800imawesome
    12 years ago

    Im more along the lines of having someone hit me first so that I have an excuse to kill them by stomping on their face, but hey, thats just me ;)

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  • DavidS.
    12 years ago

    Sigmund Freud was the first to write about the close relationship between hate and love and sex and violence and spoke about sadism..people always talk about the thin line between love and hate...sadism probably begins in childhood with emotionally neglectful parenting and punishment...the child who was emotionally and often physically neglected starts to enjoy punishment because that is the only time they get attention and physical touch....so they start to enjoy it in a way andthis later merges with sexual feelings to produce sexual sadism...while non sexual sadism also comes from overly mean and strict parenting with little love

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  • fallingskyy
    12 years ago

    cheer up girl, there's no fun in being sad all the time... love can be much better without the abuse.

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  • sonormalgirl
    13 years ago

    i love being miserable and crying all the time cuz i got used to that,i recognized two years ago that am sick and am badly sick and i need therapy..am going through a hard depression.am afraid it will be something else..so seriously you better look for the reason that let you think this way and see a doctor...bad relationships and several heart breaking did that to me..

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  • boys-are-toys
    13 years ago

    I don't think it's normal , no ... like i mean it's not like you should wish them well or anything either but wishing bad things on someone for no reason? that's not normal.

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