I have problems with girls.

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I've always seemed to have problems with relationships. Not during them but acctually creating them. I'm 18 years old, I have been told I am very good looking, smart, and understanding, am not looking for a relationship for sex, and, believe it or not, I acctually pay attention when a girl is talking to me. I have a lot of friends that are girls, but I've only had one girlfriend in my life, and it was only for a short while. I'm short for a guy my age, 5' 6", and for some reason, that seems to be such a problem with girls. I know I am rather self-conceous, but when I finally get the nerve to decide to ask a girl out, some sort of conversation pops up where I get something like "You're like a brother to me" etc. So, I hear girls complain about their boyfriends all the time, "Why does he do this, why does he do that?", and I see who their boyfriends are; c*cky guys who think the world of themselves, are only in it for sex, and generally are morons. This whole time I just sit with them through it all, while they get hurt and go running back to them. It's times like these where feel so alone. Sometimes I wonder if I am just too mature for girls my age, haha.

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  • DominiqueG
    13 years ago

    Can you come here? ;)

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  • Alejandro
    13 years ago

    Yes, normal. I think I was pretty much like you, and I solved my problem trying to be less myself. I know it sounds odd as a suggestion, but be nice & kind with you friends, be some sort of asshole with the girls you'd like to date. If you can do it right, it usually works.
    Also, if you have any male friend (not everybody does) ask for advice. Possibly, ask to someone who is successful with women.

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  • a7xa7x
    13 years ago

    I would date you

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  • 6thGrandviewMan
    13 years ago

    Hey I have the same prob. I wouldn't have a relationship for the sex but for the girl. Hey, I could friend her up real easily but that's the problem, I get too close

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Tl;dr

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  • Ronin-San
    13 years ago

    It's normal but its also your own fault.

    In my opinion just start telling these girls how you really feel about their guys and that you would be a much better guy for them and if they can't see that then you're going to need to move on because what you're getting out of this relationship isn't acceptable. And if the boyfriend comes to you and says yo why did you say that to my GF you just say its because I think its the truth and don't back down from what you said just because of them. If they want to fight, fight don't be a wuss about it.

    Women love a guy who can be everything they need them to be who don't have to feel like they are sacrificing something for something else. So you've already shown these girls your sensitive side, man up and show them you aren't afraid to tell it like it is and back up your word. With one of them its likely to work out and in the worst case scenario instead of being in the "friend zone" they will start to talk with other girls about you in a new light. and maybe that will catch some other girls attention.

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  • smileytea
    14 years ago

    Have you considered boundaries?With any friends only give them so long to chat about their problems, because you have a life, don't you? Being stuck in the agony aunt or uncle role won't get you a date!!!Tell the ones you are interested in, that you are dating at the moment.Let them know you are more than a shoulder to cry on.Better still get them to set you up with their friends , its worth a shot. By the way women like guys, who know what they want.Get your self out there, try new activities, women also like guys who are interesting and fun in and out of the bedroom.You are 18, you have time, so go out there and enjoy life.To be honest if a woman really likes you, she wont care how tall you are as long as you treat her well.

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  • himynameisjewish
    14 years ago

    awwww. your sweet
    FUCKING NERDS.

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  • animalcracker
    14 years ago

    damn, i have the same problem, all the pretty girls go for the dumb ass wannabe pussies who think their all tough. it really frustrates me. i understand what your going thru, and sadly, i dont know whats happening to girls. :/

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  • HitlerSausageSlave
    14 years ago

    Give up. When you finally realize that women are only in it for the power and the money a man can bring, then you'll start to understand reality. Take charge. A short man can get women, if he's a tough guy like Joe Pesci.

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  • Verynice11
    14 years ago

    Yea its normal it happens to me all the time

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  • Battle
    14 years ago

    You sound like you would be a good bf. don't worry the right one will come along

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