I have no self respect?

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I always let guys go way to far. I try to play hard to get but I can't. Why? Because I'm not hard to get! I love and enjoy sex just as much as guys do. Guys always assume I'm unreachable since I'm pretty hot (just being honest lol) but then when they realize I'm not unreachable at all, they instantly lose all respect for me. And they try to go further with me and it's just so hard to say no! Help. I don't like to be this way, I feel so guilty afterwards!

you slut 63
you just have low self esteem deep down 49
I am the same way / I get you 33
it's fine, have as much sex as you want! 95
other (comment) 11
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  • SuperBenzid
    11 years ago | pl

    I think the problem lies with the guys, who are losing respect for you after you do the same thing they were trying to do. Which makes them rather hypocritical. From the sounds of it, you have nothing to feel guilty about.

    I think you just need to work on finding a better class of guy than changing your own behavior. Be safe.

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    • Sog
      11 years ago

      Well, she won't find one this way. That's for sure.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Knowing that you have a problem is half of the solution. You need to learn how to say no to certain things.

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  • Ibelievethis
    11 years ago

    As long as you're fine with it and not hurting anyone, where is the harm. I suppose I am a slut, but I have never been a tease. I just go out and have sex when I want it. xx

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    If you're not a cocktease you're a slut. Just let it be. You can't please everyone :) Do what makes you happy. You're not hurting anyone..

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  • xanyleon
    11 years ago

    Enjoy yourself whilst you're still young ;)

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  • Chaosmuffin
    11 years ago

    Dayum girl just have a fun time

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  • tigerprawn
    11 years ago

    Why not just have fun, don't feel guilty just enjoy mmmm

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  • tehwalrus
    11 years ago

    I assume it's guys that you want to fuck, right? I mean, if this works for people you find unattractive, that's when you have no self respect. If it's guys you want to fuck and you can't control yourself it's not having any self-control, and that's relatable.

    For instance, I would 'never' have sex without a condom, but I'm a virgin and have no self-control so if someone offered a fuck bareback I wouldn't be able to stop myself.

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  • ryan2k12920
    11 years ago

    i think its fine to enjoy sex and want to have it a lot. it doesn`t make you a slut for enjoying it, as long as you dont cheat on anybody then its fine. and it shouldnt make people lose respect for you. sex is fun enjoy it lol

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