I have no life and no friends

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I'm currently 21 and male, I just made a big move to NY, because of blowing all of my money, job that I will never miss and not having a place to live.
I apply almost everyday to get a job so I can just work full time so I can move out west. As of right now I have 0 friends in my area, and for fun I work out six times a week and play a stupid online game called Runescape that I cheat on because I have nothing else to do.
I am really friendly and I have a past of getting walked on a lot by people, which gives me low self-confidence. I'm trying to figure out how I can meet some people that aren't addicted to drugs or anything in my area, because I can't stand to hang out with my mom, and stepfather everyday. I need help! :)

I hate having no life, but I'm to scared to do anything by myself.

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  • iLOVEmaxxieoliver
    14 years ago

    Hey, don't feel like you have no life. Sometimes I feel that way when I'm freaking bored to death, but usually I just do something like painting. You should find a hobby that you reaalllyy enjoy, so you have something to do. Also, I would reccomend getting involved; take a class, meet people. Put yourself out there! If you feel too shy around other people, maybe get a therapist so you can discuss how to get better in your social skills? Life is too short to waste, and you are still very young. Make something out of it:)

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  • peterrabbyt69
    7 years ago

    I would like to be your friend ad lover too.

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  • Nitrovxoxide
    14 years ago

    thanks for your replies I've decided to move back to my home state

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    • animalcracker
      14 years ago

      sorry, comment was for author.

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  • yknowit
    14 years ago

    try going to a place daily, like starbucks or something.. im sure youre bound to meet someone that is there alot

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  • jameilious
    14 years ago

    Been there done that. No seriously. Rsbot, the gym, everything.

    Then one day I took a drug called mephedrone and all it did to me was make me want to sort my life out.

    Applied to volunteer somewhere, made lots of friends and started doing a course. Win :)

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  • iLOVEmaxxieoliver
    14 years ago

    Also, NY is a HUGE city! It can be very overwhelming... but dont let that stop you from doing things! If you are afraid to do things without someone with you, maybe you could make some friends and do things like travel? I think traveling is a great way to adventure and learn:D

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