I have no desire to start another relationship

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After me and my ex-fiance decided to end our 4 year relationship I have no desire to start a new one. I had a boyfriend for four years and we were on the verge of getting married. Before our wedding I think we both got cold feet and weren't sure we were making the right decision. We decided to end the relationship and start experimenting with other people. While we were together I had a few escapades when we weren't getting along but for the most part he was the only guy I was with.

Now that I am single I feel I have a lot more freedom and am much happier. It's kind of like a burden has been lifted off my shoulders cause I don't have to check in with a boyfriend when I go out with friends. I've dated a lot of guys the last three years and have had short relationships but no serious commitments. I love for guys to spoil me like they do when you first start dating, and I have no problem spoiling them back. I love going to the gym and working on my body and sharing it with different guys. All I ask in return is they tell me how much they love my body. It makes me feel like Venus the Goddess of Love. I feel a much greater sense of freedom, and am really enjoying my single life.

I'm sure eventually I'll want a long term relationship but not any time soon.

I know most girls want a commitment but I don't have the desire for it. Just wanting to know your opinion if you think that is normal.

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Based on 31 votes (26 yes)
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  • Jassy
    11 years ago

    I kind a disagree Oh please. With each year that goes by i become more mature in what I look for in a guy, which is why it didn't work with the ex.

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago

    If your head is in the right place I think it is a good thing. Too many of us either throw our life into our first long-term partner or never let ourselves bond and experience a long-term relationship. You have done both and as long as your preferences for men do indeed mature as you yourself mature, then I think you're good to go.

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  • ohplease
    11 years ago

    Enjoy yourself, but bear in mind that with each year that goes by, and each random sexual encounter that you enjoy, there are fewer men worth having a long term relationship with you that that will be interested in a long term relationship with you.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    You were together for four years? How do you not think that was ok at this point?

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    Give random bjs and you'll eventually find the manmeat for u

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