I have never had sex im 28 soon and feel weird about it

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I'm afraid to have my 1st relationship cause I not only find it hard to get turned on and into the right state of mind but it will take a long time to feel so confident and comfortable with sex.
I wanted a gf as men don't have a heart and think with their dicks but seems most women in my LGBT community are unstable along with the fact they're not my type.
I still yern for romance and intimacy one day soon before I'm old looking in my 30s.
How and where to find someone content in their sexuality as well as stable enough to maintain a loving commuted relationship?

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Based on 21 votes (16 yes)
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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    It's more common than you think. I was 26 or 27 before I lost my virginity with a Lady.

    Just try to make casual friends where the two of you enjoy activities and provide emotional support for each other first... If you make do that (and you can have multiple such casual friends) someone is going to spark your interest in becoming romantically involved.

    The modern "hook up" and "casual sex" culture works against becoming a friend 1st. I have learned that the best long term relationships are where you have this kind of friendship 1st.

    I wish you well,

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Hmm interesting amd thanks for sharing this with me, makes me feel a whole lot better :)

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  • sweetone89
    2 years ago

    I was 30 when I lost my virginity.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Oh wow

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  • 12345678912
    2 years ago

    Its not àbnormal.especially nowadays. Stay cool it will all fall into place. As for the LGBT guys , i hope they didn't read your post because they will be cross! It's LGBTQ , oh sorry its changed again , now it's LGBTQ+
    :) Stay strong.
    Also are the highs worth the lows? Of a relationship?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Thanks well idk as I haven't had a relationship and always wished I knew what it felt like to have someone caring by your side 🌹

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  • randypete
    2 years ago

    I was 13 when I lost my virginity

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    • Hookerfall
      2 years ago

      Ew

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    • Mysterioushooman
      2 years ago

      i was 14

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