I have my whole wedding planned out

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Is it weird that i have my whole wedding planned out???? I want to get marriage in Jamaica on the same island my parents eloped on. Me and my husband to be will be in our swim suits on a yacht in the middle of the beautiful Jamaican water, in our bathing suits (i would be in a cute little white bikini and heels and him in black trunks and a tie) once we have "kissed the bride" the pastor says" you may now take your first plunge into life together" and we jump into the water! their will be safety crew in a little boat that we will swim too, and they will take us off to get us prepped for the reception while everyone enjoys c*cktails (the drink, it changes it haha) and favors. When we arrive at the reception I'm in my beautiful dress we cut the cake, have our first dance, and the night goes on!!!!!!

anyway, is this normal?? I'm not even engaged yet haha

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I guess your over-excited. Things don't always go as planned though, good luck.

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  • SamuraiPeeper
    14 years ago

    But I do hope you're happy in your life and with the man you marry.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Oh yeah I have mine planned out but i get married NEXT MONTH!

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    • maila2916
      10 years ago

      So you've been married for 4 years and 1 month.
      congrats!

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  • DarlingDeviant123
    12 years ago

    I guess it's pretty normal. Just romanticism, which is common, ESPECIALLY in girls. I want to get married outside... small ceremony, on a gazebo.... *sigh

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Haha that's sweet. I wouldnt do it on a yaht, or in swimsuits, etc but planning your wedding like that is normall, especially for girls

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  • Potassium
    13 years ago

    Awwwe, that's so sweet! I love the little connections you've made ("Take your first plunge into life together!") and I like the theme itself.

    I've had my dream wedding planned out since I was a little girl, adding to it as I've gotten older.
    I think it's completely normal. (:

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Well, it depeneds on how old you are.

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  • Rae1990
    14 years ago

    haha, this is like the story of my life.

    I was a bridezilla before I was even engaged.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Weddings have really gotten out of control. The expectations are incredible, as suggested by the poster who has all the ideas, but no groom, and dare I ask how much money would you squander on this fantasy.

    I'm sorry to say that because it is a nice fantasy. Maybe you are rich.

    But ... more likely you presume to inflict the costs of this on your family. But anyway, honestly, where are the life priorities and perspective because these expensive over indulged fantasies are now seen as entitlements and are rampant?

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  • SamuraiPeeper
    14 years ago

    I hate that girls are so into marriage. It's so stupid to me. It seems like everyone is just playing along with society's expectations of gender roles and gender interests. Girls like marriage and guys like football and beer and blah, blah, fucking blah.

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  • thisisfunny
    14 years ago

    very girl plans their dream wedding since they were kids. Live it up & plan plan plan

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  • stefanydee
    14 years ago

    i don't think so i think about my wedding all the time it's not all planned out though

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    every now and then i bring up the subject of how i want my wedding to be like with my friends.

    its not like you can just NOT think of it at one point or another!

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  • Solimorphic
    15 years ago

    You spend all that time planning/thinking about the wedding DAY. What about the next 40 years?

    Or is that just an afterthought?

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  • Hiljaisen_susi
    15 years ago

    That is actually really sweet!

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