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I lost a great friend and mentor three evenings ago, is it normal to think I won't get over it?

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  • icanhascheezburger
    11 years ago

    It's normal to feel that way; sorry for your loss. You may not ever fully get over it, but just remember all the fun times you spent together. It'll get easier as time goes on, I think everyone who has lost someone they cared for has been in the same position as you are. Talk about how you're feeling with someone you trust who's close to you, (family or friend) let them know how you feel maybe they can ease the pain a little more and help you get through it.

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  • Boo!
    11 years ago

    I lost someone like that too, eventually I met other people who were just as great and they filled the gaps. Dont worry it hurts and feels kind of sad right now but you will too eventally meet other people just as great. For that to happen you have to let go of them. Sometimes when one door closes we cant see the other available door because we are too busy looking in the direction of the closed door. Move on, I know harder said than done but if you at least try you'll get somewhere.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You must become that great friend and mentor. Good luck

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    • jucedaguy
      11 years ago

      Thanks, but I'm afraid it will be quite hard. Considering well over 500 people turned up to say goodbye today. He seriously was that great a man.

      If I could have a quarter if those people at my funeral I would be humbled.
      VALE OLD MATE, MISS YOU ALREADY.

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  • emi.l.y
    11 years ago

    *hug* it will be hard, but yoo will get over the feelings soon
    good luck hunni <3 x

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  • jucedaguy
    11 years ago

    Burying him tomorrow, @tommy yeah it is a little weird. But I had a life threatening situation a few years ago, and this bloke was one of the first to see me in the ER and was awesome to me over the years ifmy recovery.

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  • Purinsu
    11 years ago

    Keeping people in your heart is the only calming thing that i know

    Dead or alive when i keep people in my heart i simply get over the fact they they are not with me anymore

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    "I lost a great friend and mentor three evenings ago, is it normal to think I won't get over it?"

    I worry that you need to ask.

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  • jucedaguy
    11 years ago

    @Everybody

    Thanks for the comments, I really appreciate them.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    We've all lost. Carry on, as best you can.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    It's normal for it to feel that way, especially so soon after the fact. But you will get over it, all we can do in life is keep moving forward.

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    Bummer, sorry to hear that. Maybe it means you have graduated to the next level. Keep moving forward.

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  • gargamel
    11 years ago

    I am sorry for your loss. I'm sure you will get over it. It takes some time. Don't worry.

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    You will surely get over it..If you want to,it will be faster..Best of luck.

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