I have found a vape in my sons bedroom

Just accept him as the faggot he is.

Slap him upside the head with it.

Talk to him about it. Scolding and punishment will just make him rebel and motivate him to get better at hiding things from you. Just talk to him about it, be honest about how you feel about it and the dangers he faces by vaping.

Is it weed or tobacco? If tobacco take it if weed let him have it

it is better than smoking

Unless he is a minor and not legally allowed to vape, I dont see a problem. Tell him not to start smoking most of all.

I dont think he will start vaping infront of you, it will be too awkward. His use wont change

you can buy nicotine free juices or whatever for them and if he is only vaping you should be happy cause he could be doing other shit like smoking cigs which are hella worse for you or maybe he was and you never knew but now hes just trynna quit. idk how old he is though 10 year olds shouldnt be vaping lol but if hes like 16 fuck it it really isnt addicting unless you have the nicotine added.

what kind of vaporizer?
tobacco one or pot?
if its tobacco then he most likely wants to vape because he thinks its cool or some other reason
scold him, be reasonable. vaping is as addictive as smoking
it is healthier but still bad

How do you think you should address the sycophantic in the room?

Thats good, the law and unfounded stigmas are what're bad.

At least it's not a "mister fister" dildo, however there might be one in his room if he's into vaping.