I have everything but still nothing!!!

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Is it normal?!
I have a family that loves me, friends, etc
i am happy with my personal life!!!!!
the problem is that when i finished school i went to look for a job but i just didn't feel like making an effort to find one, i go thru ups and downs, after a few months of not finding anything...well, i wasn't REALLY looking. I decided that enough is enough and its time to really work on it, but this time i really dedicated myself to it, calling people, going on interviews, asking my friends if they knew people on the business etc etc...but all in vain, my friends keep asking what i've been up to lately, if i found anything and i'm ashamed of saying the same thing i've been saying for months!!!!
i feel stuck! i truly don't believe in myself anymore! i don't believe i'm capable of doing things, of getting things done!
my family doesn't understand why i gave up, they try to push me.
i think that all the lack of self confidence PROFESSIONALLY comes from when i was in elementary and high school, i was bullied even tough i was part of the popular girls in my school and the teacher always put me down and compared me with my A+ sister.
Please people tell me what you think i should do!!!!!!!!!!!
OH, and btw i also changed my career interest b/c i thought that that might be the problem, still nothing!

I have the same problem so i can't really help you 7
Open your own business 5
Try talking to your family again 2
Get professional help 3
Give up 4
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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    Try giving away free PUSSY to the homeless in your area,that might make you feel a little better.

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  • snafu
    11 years ago

    your suffering from depression. Cunt of a thing! get help

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Do you have working legs?

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  • Kagean
    11 years ago

    I think professional help will do. I see a lot of things that might be the source of your problems, but it could also be things that I can't get from your text. It could be your physical health, your mental health and a whole bunch of other things that wrecks your day. Maybe you need to find something that'll keep you going. That was my biggest problem when I was fighting my worst depressions. If you don't have any goals or people and/or things to fight for, then I can see why you feel this way. I have few things in life that I hold dear, but those things that I do have makes it worth getting up in the morning. No matter how much I cry or how much it hurts, I always keep on fighting because of my dreams of growing up, making a career, falling in love and exploring the life I'm stuck with.
    I don't know what you've been through or what you're like, but I can say for sure that you need to do whatever it takes to achieve something. Without achievement, you will get sick of pretty much everything.
    Best of luck to you.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    This is quite hard to read. Go to college. College will give you both the skills and a higher leg up to becoming professionally successful.

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